Mari-Cris
New Member
My man has a travel website up featuring him and other people. Some of the people are of other women he has met and travelled with. This includes women he met before he met me.
Recently, he deleted all pictures and references to these women (without my asking). He assumed I was upset with him about this (because he posted an I'm sorry message on the site), but I wasn't. There was another reason I was less than my communicative self with him lately (and it had nothing to do with him; it was due to health reasons). He took my short-term silence online as a signal that I was not pleased with the content of his website.
First: As far as his website goes, I don't care what he did/whom he met before me. And his website did not cause any problems with me. However, I do feel glad that he took those pictures down.
Question: What should I say to him about it? We are apart from each other right now and will see each other this weekend and I want to have this discussion face-to-face. I have to explain the real reason for my lack of communication recently. I never told him how badly I was feeling recently, just that I didn't feel like my usual self. I will tell him what is going on health-wise when I see him. Shall I tell him to put the content of his website back up (even though secretly I don't want him to)? Or shall I just tell him what happened before he met me with whatever women is a non-issue and leave it at that and let him decide?
Recently, he deleted all pictures and references to these women (without my asking). He assumed I was upset with him about this (because he posted an I'm sorry message on the site), but I wasn't. There was another reason I was less than my communicative self with him lately (and it had nothing to do with him; it was due to health reasons). He took my short-term silence online as a signal that I was not pleased with the content of his website.
First: As far as his website goes, I don't care what he did/whom he met before me. And his website did not cause any problems with me. However, I do feel glad that he took those pictures down.
Question: What should I say to him about it? We are apart from each other right now and will see each other this weekend and I want to have this discussion face-to-face. I have to explain the real reason for my lack of communication recently. I never told him how badly I was feeling recently, just that I didn't feel like my usual self. I will tell him what is going on health-wise when I see him. Shall I tell him to put the content of his website back up (even though secretly I don't want him to)? Or shall I just tell him what happened before he met me with whatever women is a non-issue and leave it at that and let him decide?