GetHappy2014
Well-Known Member
So, now that Summer is nearing I feel I am ready to boo up. I have been enjoying singlehood for most of the Winter. Although I have those who have been pursuing me, I must admit I am really not into them.... I've got my reasons... So very recently while walking into my work building thru security and swiping in ( in the morning)... A Brotha on his way out of the building passes me... I feel him looking at me ... I look up and he winks... I get a little flustered... 'Cause I didn't expect it and yeah he's handsome. However, I do recognize him from the very infrequent corridor and cafeteria passings over the past 2 years. So now I can't get him off of my mind. I wonder is he is single, his age, his career, etc. I turn to God and ask if this is meant to be give me a sign. So later that day... Lunch time.... I run into him (rarity)...I try and play it cool and pretend I don't see him... As I am passing him he's looking at me, he says "hi".. I shyly say "hi" and keep it moving. The next day I am in another building for lunch as I am sitting at an outdoor cafe... I feel someone looking at me from afar...I look in that direction... lo and behold it's him. I continue to stare at him 'cause I don't want this moment to get away...to me it seems as if he is turning/walking in my direction... THEN his coworker (a woman) directs his attention back to her as she is talking and walking... My stare turns to her almost to say with my eyes...you are with someone.. He redirects himself and continues on the path with his coworker as she is talking ... Literally running her mouth
. Now he is really on my mind... Did I imagine what just happened...?Did he pick up on my vibe ? I get back to my office and do a little digging....I was able to narrow the possibility of who he is...to one person. If I am not mistaken I now have his phone number. Given this opportunity how should I reach out to him? I can never let him know how I got his contact information.