I plan on relaxing very soon so I wanted to do an aphogee tx to make sure my hair would be as strong as possible. Here's the thing..I'm a little skeptical of using it because I think part of the reason my hair is SO brittle is because every conditioner I own has some form of protein in it...even the ones i use for CO washes..so should I do a deep conditioning tx with a con that i shall pilfer...or still do aphogee and follow with a moisturizing Con?