How to Holler (MadameNoire)

-Ask Good Questions: Find out what his interests are, who he be with, things that make him smile and (hopefully) what numbers to dial (shouts out to Biggie for that!). Don’t treat him like he’s on a job interview, but give him the opportunity to share enough about himself for you both to make a decision about what to do next (if anything).
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This was bad. :down:

eta: to explain why. I thought it was bad because they've been giving this advice out in Teen magazine since 1976. There.
 
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Good points but I 100% disagree with initiating the exchanging of the numbers. If he is interested, he WILL ask you for contact information.

He will not let you go without the digits if he knows he may not see you again. Sometimes even if he knows he will see you again, a man will wait a little before asking you to scope you out.

But needless to say, I never ask for the number first and I never call first.

I have no problem showing initial interest but I leave the subsequent pursuing to the man.
 
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