I've run into a lot of relationship threads on forums about what women do wrong (chasing men, being thirsty, "dating" a man who are not interested in them, etc) and the effects it has on women, (losing your dignity). This morning on Facebook, I saw a post by a younger girl that got me thinking. The gist of it was "All of this advice about what not to do, is great. Too bad it's always after the fact." It really stayed on my mind because a lot of women really don't get training (whether it's not having parents in the home, or whatever) and end up experiencing heartache the hard way. It doesn't even have to be anything life altering, just unnecessary heartache. But I know there have to be real answers women who seek them ---- even after the fact. So what advice would you give women on how to get dignity back? It could be books, EFT, tough love, etc. Keep it positive please & I appreciate seeing others' input.