hunnychile
Well-Known Member
I'm at my one year and things are running a little dry.
How can we work on becoming closer?
How can we work on becoming closer?
You know what's funny about travelling as a couple? People always seem to recommend it, but it really seems to be hit or miss. Most couples I know, go somewhere and end up fighting.
Fine 4sI like the sound of those levels @nlamr2013
If ever you find the name of that blog do come and tell us!
A bath together sounds so romantic.Sharing activities, new experiences, travel together (for me that works), take a bath together. Make plans for all this to build up anticipation.
If this doesn't work, color in a parking lot j/k
This is my biggest complaint from him, that I don't listen. I am working on being more present when we're together.Whatever activity a couple chooses, staying in the moment (by staying OFF phones/devices) is always a step in the right direction. You can't build intimacy if you can't go more than a couple minutes without turning your attention AWAY from your partner and towards checking social media, e-mails, text messages etc.
This was me and my ex when we went on our Bahamas cruise. It's a miracle we both made it off the ship.
Or maybe they are used to spending so much time apart normally (work, kids, other responsibilities) that when they travel together and are side by side all day for days on end, issues start to surface that typically don't in their everyday life.I was thinking about this today... Would it be safe to assume that those couples who couldn't enjoy a trip together probably had irriperable issues to start with and travelling together just highlighted that fact.