Glib Gurl
Well-Known Member
This might sound strange, but hear me out - do you ever get the sense that many "good black men" are going out of their way NOT to be seen? Like diverting their eyes or turning their heads so as to avoid eye contact? Like they're afraid that you, as a black woman, will pounce on them once you get within arm's length? (On the one hand, I think it's incredibly rude. On the other hand, I can sorta empathize . . . I do something similar when a homeless dude or somebody looks like he's going to approach me. And, I'm sure because there is so much competition out here most men feel like they're constantly being approached by women and have to make it clear when they're not interested.)