Glib Gurl
Well-Known Member
In the 2010 Relationship Goals thread, Duchesse said something that really resonated with me:
I think many of us agree that while it's nice to "not look" you have to be deliberate when you decide that you want to meet someone and get married. (Thank you, Bunny77 ) But, I find that I have NO kind of poker face and I tend to come onto men the same way that Duchesse describes above. It's like when I meet a man who so much as looks at me funny and at least somewhat seems to meet my criteria, my thought process immediately goes into overdrive and I find myself asking him telepathically, "Will YOU be the one who makes my dreams come true?"
Who else does this? Better yet, who else USED TO do this and has learned not to pin her hopes on every dude that opens a door or smiles at her?
My goals are to have no goals. Last year, I was convinced that I would meet "The One". What did I do? Approach every man that I dated with the mindset of "is it him, is it him?" Killed all the fun out of dating. I'm embracing getting my money and career together and approaching dating with a light heart and no expectations (this is what I hope to do).
I think many of us agree that while it's nice to "not look" you have to be deliberate when you decide that you want to meet someone and get married. (Thank you, Bunny77 ) But, I find that I have NO kind of poker face and I tend to come onto men the same way that Duchesse describes above. It's like when I meet a man who so much as looks at me funny and at least somewhat seems to meet my criteria, my thought process immediately goes into overdrive and I find myself asking him telepathically, "Will YOU be the one who makes my dreams come true?"
Who else does this? Better yet, who else USED TO do this and has learned not to pin her hopes on every dude that opens a door or smiles at her?