Well, this is my story. I was with this guy briefly in 2010. We broke up. I thought I was going to bounce back so quick so I was pursuing this guy I'd had a crush on for a while. 4 years later, crush moved up north and I'm still sitting her like
. It's only now that I'm realizing that I never let myself heal properly after that relationship. I learned a lot about myself and I needed this time to be single to learn. Now it's been 4 years since my last boyfriend (casual) and I went on my last date (friend, kinda attracted) in December I think. That's not going anywhere. Now I have to see my ex at least 2x a week at work and I'm not sure what I'm feeling. Regret, jealousy, mourning, no idea. But I'll say this: I'm looking for him (Future voice).
Unrelated question: Do you think it's just for a woman to ask/look for a man who has his ish together when she doesn't?