how often should you see your boyfriend?

[celiabug]

Im not talking about long distance relationship. Im talking about if they live near each other. and for how long?

 

[NOEChic]

I voted other..there is no set equation/answer to the question. Depending on both of y'all schedules and how often and long y'all want to spend time with each other is the answer to the questions.

relegating your bf to only seeing you two days a week bc you dont want to seem desperate or easy is game playing, and if you are playing games in a relationship you should not be in one.

 

[Whimsy]

That's relative. Depends on how old you are, what's going on in your lives, and your personal preferences. Also where you are in your relationship, just started out....together for years etc...

 

[childoftheKing]

At least once a day, and I spend weekends at his house

eta: I misread the question, obviously. I thought she asked how often DO I see him.

I think u should see each other as often as is mutually comfortable. I dont believe there is a set procedure to these things

 

[Triniwegian]

However much you would like to... as long as spending time with him doesn't interfere with your life. Don't give up on the things you should do or love just because of a guy.

 

[BeautifulFlower]

Whenever you want just make sure your life doesn't consist of waiting to spend time with him or waiting for that call to come over.


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[ThickHair]

This can be tough. I don't believe you should be at his beck and call, but a few times a week would be ok. If you are "That Girl" and still living your life, you wouldn't be able to see him daily any way. A lot of women just give up their life when they have man with easy access.

At least once a day, and I spend weekends at his house

Ugh, I couldn't do that.

 

[LiftedUp]

I'm not in a relationship now but when I was it was usually an everyday thing. He'd come "check" me after work at my home. The visits could be from a couple of mins up.

It's what you prefer in a relationship and since I really really really don't do phone calls this works for me.

 

[coconow2007]

Whenever u both feel like seeing each other. Taking into consideration work, family, school, friends and other committments.

 

[Lucie]

It depends on the couple, their schedules, how long they've been together, how closely they live to one another and what suits their needs.

 

[KeraKrazy]

I also think it depends on your schedules, I see mine 2/3 times a week max, we're both pretty busy during the week so we have dinner 1 or 2 times during the week and spend most weekends together.

 

[MD_Lady]

People have to do what works for them... DH and I worked together so we saw each other everyday, but didn't have quality time until the weekend. This arrangement worked wonderfully for us, but I know people who would have been burnt out seeing their SO everyday while others would have gone crazy waiting until the weekend to be alone.

 

[LaFaraona]

There is no should here. You have to do what works for the 2 of you. THere are 2 people in a relationship and it is up to them to decide what works for them.
That is what I do and it works beautifully. I also have me time, which is imperative.

 

[Papoose]

However much you would like to... as long as spending time with him doesn't interfere with your life. Don't give up on the things you should do or love just because of a guy.

My thoughts exactly.

 

[Azure18]

Shoot for every other day or every two days and all weekend. You def gotta have your private time (I call them my beauty days)

 

[mischka]

I think for me I would like a couple times a week... no less than two, maybe three.

 

[AlliCat]

I voted every other day. But definitely talk every day.

 

[Arian]

I made the mistake of giving up my life when I was in my last relationship of 4 years...never again. I would come by his house every other day after work and we would see each other on weekends. But nope, next time, dude will see me when he sees me....

 

[natural_one]

I see mine about 3 times a week..It works for us since we both like to do activities aside from each other.

 

[GeorginaSparks]

once every 2 weeks i really enjoy my own company

 

[locabouthair]

If you live near each other a few times a week is fine.

 

[CurlyMoo]

I'd like to know the answer to that for long distance overseas relationships.

 

[*5+5]

I like lots of together time. I wanna see my man everyday unless I have specific plans with friends or family.

 

[missjones]

I said every other day so you won't get sick of each other.

 

[UrbainChic]

I'd like to know the answer to that for long distance overseas relationships.

CurlyMoo
Overseas and every 2-3 months. Yes it can get expensive.

 

[CurlyMoo]

@CurlyMoo
Overseas and every 2-3 months. Yes it can get expensive.

Well I guess that's why we're no longer together.