I havent had any major setbacks that required me to cut off a few inches or anything like that..... but I have a tendency to continually dwell on a mistake that I made and feel REALLY bad about it. I think thats just my personality in general though, im a worrier and i obsess about things, unable to let them go.
For example...... several months ago, when it was still cold, i forgot about the fact that my hair was out, and i roughly zipped my coat up.... and a good chunk of hair was caught in the zip, and although i gently unzipped it, i still think about what that probably did to my ends from time to time and it makes me so annoyed.
erplexed
In the last few weeks, I have snagged my peeling fingernail polish in my hair.... and when I try to gently remove my fingers from my hair where I was scratching..... several long strands of hair are torn off in the nail. This also bothers me, and its hard not to dwell on it.
And most recently..... I decided to wear my hair down for my sisters graduation (because my sister KEPT insisting).... and i was wearing a rough, woolen sweater over my little sundress. And I had it down for only a couple of hours before i ended up putting it up, because i felt too guilty and couldnt enjoy it. And now, a couple of weeks later, i am still wondering how much damage I did to my ends while it was rubbing against that rough sweater.
I should have gone with my gut instinct and just put it up.... but nooo, i just had to be grown and wear it down for the graduation.
*Bad Yakini, Bad Yakini*
So yeah, God forbid i ever have a major enough setback to have to trim off the ends. It would probably take me YEARS to get over something that "traumatizing," lol. I wish i could just "move on" like many of you ladies.... but its just in my nature to be so anxious/worry/ruminate. It sucks.....