Glib Gurl
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Yes, the scene from "For Colored Girls" is coming to mind where the poor Lady in Yellow, let that man over to her apartment to cook for him and he ended up raping her in the living room
Now, needless to say, you don't let a dude see your place on the second date. But in general, how long do you wait before your comfortable enough to let a person see where you live (at least for the purpose of picking you up/dropping you off)? My "sister in law" (I say that because she and my brother are going to be engaged any day now) said she waited 3 months before letting my brother see her place.
(And this is not even getting to the issue of coloring. Let's just assume that's off the table.)
Now, needless to say, you don't let a dude see your place on the second date. But in general, how long do you wait before your comfortable enough to let a person see where you live (at least for the purpose of picking you up/dropping you off)? My "sister in law" (I say that because she and my brother are going to be engaged any day now) said she waited 3 months before letting my brother see her place.
(And this is not even getting to the issue of coloring. Let's just assume that's off the table.)