Lisa
Well-Known Member
tactfully tell a guy you don't want to go out with him or you don't want to give him your number (because you're not interested)? Let's say he is someone you will see everyday and you don't want to insult him or he is a relative of a friend and you don't want to make things awkward but you're really not interested!
Can you tactfully say no? I haven't had very good luck with this! The first time this happened I just told the guy I wasn't interested. That blew up in my face because one of my co-workers (who I thought was my friend) stopped talking to me ! The last time this happened to me I lied and told the guy I had a boyfriend but he started avoiding me and it was awkward. I later heard through the co-worker grapevine that he was telling people I don't date white guys erplexed.
Is there a way to do this tactfully?
Can you tactfully say no? I haven't had very good luck with this! The first time this happened I just told the guy I wasn't interested. That blew up in my face because one of my co-workers (who I thought was my friend) stopped talking to me ! The last time this happened to me I lied and told the guy I had a boyfriend but he started avoiding me and it was awkward. I later heard through the co-worker grapevine that he was telling people I don't date white guys erplexed.
Is there a way to do this tactfully?