I always apply my hhb to my just washed wet hair. I don't have any problems with this. I just scoop a bit out with my fingers and apply to my hair - from just after scalp to about two inches or so down. Before I do this, my hair is already detangled and I just part in sections to apply the hhb. After I finishing applying it, I smooth my hair back with no problems.
I'm starting to wonder why others are having a problem with this...?? Are you guys parting your hair in sections or just grabbing the butter and putting it on your hair? Part in one to two inch sections and you shouldn't have a problem. If your hhb isn't soft and creamy, warm it up so it spreads evenly.
Once in a while, I'll use it on dry hair. For example, last night, I reparted my hair (changed middle to side part) so I spritzed my hair with a moisturizing mixture and then rubbed some hhb in my hands and then over my hair. I smoothed my hair with my comb and then put on my scarf.