I use a Kizure pressing comb - made by an old black owned company so they know how to press it right.
I blow dry, but other than the oils in my condish, I don't add oils. I only use a leave in moisturizer and heat protectants. I use Superstar by TIGI for the blow drying phase and Chi for the press phase. Hair is swang and lovely.
PS I am also a Pink fan and well as IRIS. They are bomb.