The way I get my bun to look neat is when I wash/condition my hair, I keep the hair straight back and detangle in the shower. After I shower, I wrap a towel over my hair to soak up the excess water for about 10 mins and then apply my leave in, moistuizer and seal my ends. After that, I smooth my hair in a bun or baggy with my hands and I gently run my baby brush along the my hairline and then I put my scarf on my head tight but not too tight. When I wake up in the morning it is smooth and it looks like the pic below. I know the picture is pretty big, I couldn't resize it.