How did your relationship change with DH/SO when you had your first child?

[melissa-bee]

Did you have loads of problems, did you split up, did you want to kill him ?
How soon did things start getting better?

Did you have these same problems with the 2nd and every child or were they resolved the first time around.

 

[gabulldawg]

Did you have loads of problems, did you split up, did you want to kill him ?
How soon did things start getting better?

Did you have these same problems with the 2nd and every child or were they resolved the first time around.

Things actually didn't change very much. I was definitely worried that our relationship would suffer after a baby. But if anything it helped us love each other more. We have become quite the team. We only have one child at the moment. I'm actually really nervous at the thought of having another child. I really like things the way they are and don't want to ruin the dynamics of our relationship. I'd love to hear from couples with 2+ children.