Have you considered using a liquid leave-in? If your hair is well conditioned, you should be able to use just a liquid leave-in, or just some heat protectant before blowdrying. The less stuff on your hair, the silkier it will turn out.
Giovanni's liquid leave-in (vitapro fusion) would be good for that because it's a liquid but it's not super liquidy. And although I never tried to blowdry with it back when I was using it, I bet Aphogee's pro vitamin leave-in would be good too.