I wet a towel but not soaking wet. Then put it into a covered container and put it in the microwave for about 10 minutes. I did this tonight and only left it in for 5 minutes so next time I will put it in longer. Then I took the towel out wrapped my head up and then also put a dry towel over the wet towel and left it on for about 15 minutes or so and then I removed the towels and my hair was so soft. Prior to putting the towel on my hair I put coconut oil in my hair and focused mostly on my ends and did my scalp and worked it through and massaged my scalp and sprayed my hair with the Morroccan Method diamond crystal mist leave in conditioner and it left my hair so soft. This is something I came up with when I don't feel like going to the gym and going in the steam room.