SimpleKomplexity
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My status on yahoo was: I don't chase men they always chase me... Oh lord why I say that. Look at the convo that followed. Hmm I noticed that I don't truly understand WHY we don't pursue men. I just follow it. I understand that men like to play "the chase game". By pursuing them we have taken them out of that game and subjected ourselves to heartache...but isnt it more to it than that?
Mr. Arrogant: so so arrogant
MiSSKrazYNKute: Not arrogant just real
Mr. Arrogant: i guess
MiSSKrazYNKute: Isn't that what you told me? You're not arrogant just real
Mr. Arrogant: i never superceed myself by limiting how a situation will play out
MiSSKrazYNKute: *shrugs* I'm not limiting how a situation will play out
MiSSKrazYNKute: but I AM telling you how I play the game
MiSSKrazYNKute: I don't pursue, I am pursued
Mr. Arrogant: then you just made yourself predictable
MiSSKrazYNKute: If you think so
MiSSKrazYNKute: I guess it is predictable, because I won't chase you or any man. That's a fact so you're right
Mr. Arrogant: who said you were chasing me
MiSSKrazYNKute: I didn't say I was I said I won't
MiSSKrazYNKute: reading is fundamental
Mr. Arrogant: i did read. i was also gonna say in response that a real man or woman wouldn't want to be chased. There should be a meeting of a minds and the two parts should come together. so if you think that you can sit still and let it come to you, either you are lazy or delusional
MiSSKrazYNKute: Well you know people think in different ways. You do not have the same beliefs as me and that's cool. It just means we are not meant to be, because I don't change my standards for anyone. Including a man. Have standards does not make me delusional. It makes me mature
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Mr. Arrogant: a standard is what something must have not the action you must take to get it. if you see something you want and you don't have the necessary ambition to stick your hand out and grab it, who's fault is it when you don't get it
MiSSKrazYNKute: Don't get me wrong. I show emotion towards those that I have interest in, and the relationship effort is 50/50 as it should be. But I don't pursue men. If you don't like it, you don't have to. But don't expect me to change my mindset
Mr. Arrogant: i'm not asking you to but i'm just saying there is a difference in when you called me arrogant and when i say it to you
Mr Arrogant: i'm saying it because you are one of those people who believe that if something not done a certian way even if it comes to the same result, then its wrong. You will never get a man with that attitude
Mr. Arrogant: so so arrogant
MiSSKrazYNKute: Not arrogant just real
Mr. Arrogant: i guess
MiSSKrazYNKute: Isn't that what you told me? You're not arrogant just real
Mr. Arrogant: i never superceed myself by limiting how a situation will play out
MiSSKrazYNKute: *shrugs* I'm not limiting how a situation will play out
MiSSKrazYNKute: but I AM telling you how I play the game
MiSSKrazYNKute: I don't pursue, I am pursued
Mr. Arrogant: then you just made yourself predictable
MiSSKrazYNKute: If you think so
MiSSKrazYNKute: I guess it is predictable, because I won't chase you or any man. That's a fact so you're right
Mr. Arrogant: who said you were chasing me
MiSSKrazYNKute: I didn't say I was I said I won't
MiSSKrazYNKute: reading is fundamental
Mr. Arrogant: i did read. i was also gonna say in response that a real man or woman wouldn't want to be chased. There should be a meeting of a minds and the two parts should come together. so if you think that you can sit still and let it come to you, either you are lazy or delusional
MiSSKrazYNKute: Well you know people think in different ways. You do not have the same beliefs as me and that's cool. It just means we are not meant to be, because I don't change my standards for anyone. Including a man. Have standards does not make me delusional. It makes me mature
.
Mr. Arrogant: a standard is what something must have not the action you must take to get it. if you see something you want and you don't have the necessary ambition to stick your hand out and grab it, who's fault is it when you don't get it
MiSSKrazYNKute: Don't get me wrong. I show emotion towards those that I have interest in, and the relationship effort is 50/50 as it should be. But I don't pursue men. If you don't like it, you don't have to. But don't expect me to change my mindset
Mr. Arrogant: i'm not asking you to but i'm just saying there is a difference in when you called me arrogant and when i say it to you
Mr Arrogant: i'm saying it because you are one of those people who believe that if something not done a certian way even if it comes to the same result, then its wrong. You will never get a man with that attitude