Hip Length Challenge 2010

[Lucia]

Before anyone decides to TRIM their HAIR..... please try this first!


1. Take a small strand of hair, about half an inch in diameter. The hair should be dry.
2. Twist the strand gently until the damaged ends appear. These may be apparent along the whole length of the strand.
3. Holding a pair of sharp scissors perpendicular to the strand, snip off the split ends and damaged parts, using only the tips of the scissors.
4. Continue to move down the strand in small sections, following this method. You are not trimming length, merely split ends. 5. Go all round the head in this way. It will take between 10 and 45 minutes. Cut off only the damaged ends, nothing else.
6. If you see badly bent or out of place hairs, clip those too!
7. Do the above on a regular basis to get rid of the bad hair....

Then follow your haircare routines faithfully, keeping your ends moisturized. Keep your hair in protective styles during this difficult processes, and the hair will catchup and start to fill in the GAPS!!!!

We want to preserve OUR HAIR!!!!!!!!

Great tip, S&D is the way to retain length and keep splits away.
It's better to blunt after you've reached goal and not before it only sets you back.

 

[LadyPaniolo]

Great tip, S&D is the way to retain length and keep splits away.
It's better to blunt after you've reached goal and not before it only sets you back.

ITA, it's far better to reach your goal length and then go for a blunt length That's what I plan to do.

I'm really stepping up my S&D game this year. I've got my good hair scissors near my computer and I take them with me when I'm vegging out in front of the tv as well. I can S&D during commercial breaks.

 

[Candy828]

Eating Healthy.....

Foods, Vitamins and supplements to help hair growth

Hair is mostly protein, so nutritionists advise those wanting healthy hair to eat well balanced diets that include healthy proteins, along with foods high in vitamin B, C, E, A and K.
Your hair will most likely respond well to the addition of high protein foods such as meats, eggs, cheese, seeds and nuts. Fish has good protein as well as essential fatty acids and natural oils.
Vitamin B - Green vegetables, beans, sunflower seeds, nuts and peas.
Vitamin C - Citrus fruits like oranges, lemons, limes, melons and berries.
Vitamin E - Avocados, rice bran, nuts, dark green vegetables, legumes and whole grains.
Vitamin A - Carrots, sweet potatoes, squash, broccoli, cantaloupe and apricots.
Vitamin K - Seafood, dairy, figs, asparagus, broccoli, lettuce, brussel sprouts, cabbage, dark green leafy vegetables, oatmeal, soybeans, wheat, yoghurt, egg yolks and liver.


This is an article from hairstyle.com.... I have been using it as a guide to add to my daily meals.... I hope this will help someone else!

 

[Candy828]

Exercise/Lifestyle Guidelines for Promoting Hair Growth

This from stophairlossnow.com. I take long walks or go hiking. I practice breathing deeply. I try to get as much sleep as I can. I try to avoid stressful situations whenever possible. If I feel stressed out, I go for a long walk.

I think this completes the detail explanation for some of the 14 items on the Hair Growth Checklist...

 

[Candy828]

If your hair will not grow.... know the reasons why and take appropriate actions...

Here are some of the main causes of hair loss:
· Genetics is one of the biggest causes of hair loss. Some women are known to suffer from pattern baldness. (small percentage)
· Hormonal imbalance is said to be the biggest factor in genetic hair loss.
· The female hormone, estrogen, can also cause hair loss and may women can suffer significant hair loss when using birth control pill.
· Many women also suffer from hair loss after giving birth. This is caused by the hormonal changes occurring within the body of the new mother and is only temporary.
· Stress can cause a lot of bodily problems, hair loss being one of them. While hair loss caused by stress is only temporary, it can be the trigger for the onset of permanent genetically based hair loss.
· An unhealthy diet can also cause hair loss, especially a diet that is high in saturated fat and lacking in hair friendly vitamins and minerals. A healthy hair follicle needs things like iron, zinc, protein, and vitamin B6 in order to stay healthy.
· Drink too much coffee, tea or alcohol, or eating too many processed fried, spicy, greasy or sour foods can reduce the amount of nutrients that the hair follicle is getting.
· Certain drugs, medication, or treatments like chemotherapy can cause hair loss. These are usually temporary and your hair grows back once you stop taking the drugs or getting the treatment.
· Some fungal infections like ringworm or the STD can cause hair loss. Dandruff does not!
· Hair loss could be a symptom of an underlying disease such as diabetes, or lupus.
· Getting old is another way to suffer from hair loss. Losing hair is a side effect of the aging process.

 

[schipperchow1]

Is it too late to join you ladies? I recently made waist, but I needed a trim BAD. Its too long to be full MBL but not quite WL. It hurted to see it go. Lol. I will be bunning it up anyway. But I'm still only 5 - 5 1/2 inches from HL.

Yes, you are too late to join the official challenge. The cut off date was Thursday, January 14. However, you are more than welcome to join us in the journey to HL. HHG!

 

[schipperchow1]

ITA, it's far better to reach your goal length and then go for a blunt length That's what I plan to do.

I'm really stepping up my S&D game this year.

This is what I am doing.

Lately, I have noticed several comments (in other threads) about cut those ends - you're really not that length if all your hair isn't at that length or the ends are thin - anything longer than WL is too much or doesn't have style erplexed.

I want to encourage the ladies on this challenge to keep doing what works for you to attain the length that you desire. For some, that may mean a cut, a trim, or S&D. For others, it may simply be to baby the ends until they reach a certain length. Just do you & keep it positive & keep growing.

My hair is layered & I plan on keeping it in some form of layered style so to some, I may never be considered HL stretched or I may be considered to have "thin" ends because it won't be a blunt cut.

Personally, I love the length of my hair & the styling freedom & flexibility that comes with it, whether it's in a bun, ponytail, WnG, rollerset, or the rare flat iron. I hope to reach TB stretched/straightened & maintain at that length. :superbanana:

What do you like about your length?
Are you planning on stopping at HL or aiming for longer lengths?
What are you doing to enjoy your hair as it grows longer?
HHG!

 

[Firstborn2]

I love this thread it is so encouraging. I've been lurking in here for awhile,lol...I wish I could have joined but I'm nowhere near HL...Good Luck ladies

 

[Lucia]

I have a few natural layers too, the infamous V-shape in the back. Once I reach HL I'm going to slightly blunt it to a U-shape and then maintain with my regime, S&D's, and the occasional trim when needed to get full HL. Maybe I'll let it grow to TBL who knows....

 

[MariposaSexyGirl]

Is it too late to join you ladies? I recently made waist, but I needed a trim BAD. So I went from this

to this

I don't even know what length to call that. Somewhere between MBL/WL. Its too long to be full MBL but not quite WL. It hurted to see it go. Lol. I will be bunning it up anyway. But I'm still only 5 - 5 1/2 inches from HL. (I added HL to my shirt)
It looks like this in regular clothes

Your hair is so pretty. Didn't look like it needed to be trimmed in the fist but it still looks wl to me.

 

[Candy828]

This is what I am doing.

Lately, I have noticed several comments (in other threads) about cut those ends - you're really not that length if all your hair isn't at that length or the ends are thin - anything longer than WL is too much or doesn't have style erplexed.

I want to encourage the ladies on this challenge to keep doing what works for you to attain the length that you desire. For some, that may mean a cut, a trim, or S&D. For others, it may simply be to baby the ends until they reach a certain length. Just do you & keep it positive & keep growing.

My hair is layered & I plan on keeping it in some form of layered style so to some, I may never be considered HL stretched or I may be considered to have "thin" ends because it won't be a blunt cut.

Personally, I love the length of my hair & the styling freedom & flexibility that comes with it, whether it's in a bun, ponytail, WnG, rollerset, or the rare flat iron. I hope to reach TB stretched/straightened & maintain at that length. :superbanana:

What do you like about your length?
Are you planning on stopping at HL or aiming for longer lengths?
What are you doing to enjoy your hair as it grows longer?
HHG!

About the length..... The Chinese Women have some of the longest hair in the world. I have seen many Chinese long hair contest and the winners usually had hair cascading out like a wedding gown. But the last 5 inches or so was thin. Sometimes very thin and they won! So I'd have to disagree that it has to be all one length. But during those contest, the women who had the most beautiful and healthy looking hair, had their hair trimmed and all at one length.

I want everyone to stay encouraged... because whatever haircut/style you chooose for yourself is good. Your happiness is what counts!

Personally, right now my hair is layered. But everytime I get it layered I go right back to wanting it to be all one length. So I have been growing out my hair to be one length.

As for Goal length. I want to see if I can reach mid-thigh length!

"Never let anyone make you feel bad about your choice. Whatever you think you want to be.... let it be. Not to say that you care... just making a statement for women in general...."

I think you have very lovely HAIR!!!!!!!!!!!! YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!!

 

[Candy828]

Schipperchowl - you are the best hostess!!! I think this is the best thread because of you!

Thanks you very much for starting this thread!

 

[LadyPaniolo]

I am so encouraged by this thread and by you ladies

Schipperchow1, I have also noticed the comments about how your ends should be like this or like that, or you cannot claim your length unless your ends are blunt or hair that's too long is undesirable I'm sure all of you ladies saw that. But I refuse to let it stop my show.

My goal is classic length. When I BCed 3 years ago down to an inch of hair, it seemed like classic length might be an impossible dream. Now, though, I have learned so much and I do believe I can make it. It may take me 4 years to get there, but get there I will. And when I do, I will be dancing in the streets

 

[Candy828]

About Oils…

Carrier Oils​

Sweet Almond Oil – This oil is extremely good for dry and dull hair. Contains vitamins A, B1, B2, B6 and E, as well as essential fatty acids (good fats).
Olive oil – Olive oil is easily absorbed and conditions hair and scalp very well. I use olive oil regularly in my hair to seal in moisture and provide softness.
Coconut oil – This oil is another moisture sealer. It also smells wonderful and leaves hair feeling soft.
Castor oil – Castor oil added to hair care products helps to seal in moisture. It also makes hair softer and is known to thicken thin hair over time with regular use.
Vitamin E oil – Vitamin E oil is great for rejuvenating dull, dry, and damaged hair when used regularly.
Jojoba oil- Jojoba oil is very similar to the sebum that our scalps naturally secrete. Because of our hair’s tight coil pattern, black women’s hair usually doesn’t receive enough sebum, which results in the dryness and breakage. Sense it is so similar to natural sebum, it is easily absorbed by the hair and scalp and provides excellent lubrication and smoothing.
Safflower Oil Benefits for Hair - Has high levels of vitamin E, alpha-tocopherol and phytosterols. Safflower oil for hair growth contains high amounts of oleic acid, which is light in texture and penetrates the skin easily. This protects, nourishes, hydrates and firms the hair. Being extremely rich in essential polyunsaturated fatty acids, it is highly beneficial for dry, color treated or perm hair. When applied to the scalp, it acts as an vasolidator which can dilate the blood vessels, resulting in more nutrients supply to the hair follicles through blood circulation, and a healthy environment for hair regrowth.

Safflower Oil for Dry Hair
Our hair normally contains a moisture content of approximately 10%, which when drops below this level needs to be retained. As the hair grows past the neck line or doesn't have a direct contact with the scalp, the essential natural oils present in the scalp are not utilized throughout the hair shaft. Therefore, to increase the hair's ability to attract and retain moisture in the cortex of the hair, one can use moisturizers rich in essential fatty acids (EFA). Safflower oil is one of the best and cost effective oil for dry hair containing essential fatty acids. Following are few steps that will help you to replace the lost EFA and moisture from the scalp:

Grape Seed Oil - [FONT=굴림]Grape seed oil is a lightweight, colorless and odorless oil that has a number of uses. It can be taken as a health tonic, used as a cooking oil or used to moisturize the skin and hair. Because it is lighter weight than many other oils, such as olive oil, it absorbs into the skin and hair much faster, and without weighing hair down. Here is a quick and easy grape seed hot oil treatment that is sure to leave your hair moisturized, beautiful and luxurious.[/FONT]

Essential Oils​

Rosemary - promotes hair growth by increasing circulation in the scalp and can be used directly on the scalp.


Peppermint oil - stimulates hair growth because of the tingling sensation is provides to the scalp. It also reduces itching and of course, the smell is great. Can be used directly on hair/scalp.


Grapefruit oil – This is another oil that is good for stimulating hair growth.


Tea-Tree Oil – Many, many uses! It is anti-bacterial, antiseptic and fungicidal, meaning that it will free hair follicles of any bacteria and fungus that is clogging them. (Fungus in hair follicles is sometimes the reason for slow hair growth!) It blends easily with other natural oils that your body makes, so it is absorbed easily. Tea-Tree Oil also reduces dandruff, itching and any sores and lesions you may have on your skin/scalp.

 

[Candy828]

About Oils...

Sorry... Safflower Oil is an essential oil not a carrier oil. I use this one more than Olive oil. I use different oils at different times depending on how my hair and scalp is behaving.....

I think these definitions will be useful to someone!

 

[Lucia]

Doesn't Coconut oil thicken hair over time too?

 

[Candy828]

Doesn't Coconut oil thicken hair over time too?

From what I have read.... If you have thick hair coconut oil will help to keep it thick. If you have thin hair coconut oil will make it feel thick. But Castor oil will actually make you hair thicker over time. If you stop using castor oil you hair will eventually go back to the was it normally is.

 

[Candy828]

Sorry for the typo... If you stop using castor oil it will go back to the way it normally was. (your natural hair texture...)

 

[curlycue]

This is what I am doing.

Lately, I have noticed several comments (in other threads) about cut those ends - you're really not that length if all your hair isn't at that length or the ends are thin - anything longer than WL is too much or doesn't have style erplexed.

I want to encourage the ladies on this challenge to keep doing what works for you to attain the length that you desire. For some, that may mean a cut, a trim, or S&D. For others, it may simply be to baby the ends until they reach a certain length. Just do you & keep it positive & keep growing.

My hair is layered & I plan on keeping it in some form of layered style so to some, I may never be considered HL stretched or I may be considered to have "thin" ends because it won't be a blunt cut.

Personally, I love the length of my hair & the styling freedom & flexibility that comes with it, whether it's in a bun, ponytail, WnG, rollerset, or the rare flat iron. I hope to reach TB stretched/straightened & maintain at that length. :superbanana:

What do you like about your length?
Are you planning on stopping at HL or aiming for longer lengths?
What are you doing to enjoy your hair as it grows longer?
HHG!

Thanks so much for this post. I really love the length of my hair because there are so many cute styles that I can do with it. I see a lot of ladies on this board trimming there ends when they do not need to be trimmed. They might be a little thin but that doesn't necessarily mean they are damaged. I just don't get iterplexed. I plan on growing my hair to classic because I want it to hang to my hip when dry.

 

[mariofmagdal]

My hair is growing out from layers as well. I got layers because my hair was so top heavy and no style looked right. So, if my hair were straightened and flowing down my back at hip length, is someone really gonna say that's not my length because all of my hair is not there? Wow.

 

[testimony777]

Lately, I have noticed several comments (in other threads) about cut those ends - you're really not that length if all your hair isn't at that length or the ends are thin - anything longer than WL is too much or doesn't have style erplexed.

I want to encourage the ladies on this challenge to keep doing what works for you to attain the length that you desire. For some, that may mean a cut, a trim, or S&D. For others, it may simply be to baby the ends until they reach a certain length. Just do you & keep it positive & keep growing.

My hair is layered & I plan on keeping it in some form of layered style so to some, I may never be considered HL stretched or I may be considered to have "thin" ends because it won't be a blunt cut.

Personally, I love the length of my hair & the styling freedom & flexibility that comes with it, whether it's in a bun, ponytail, WnG, rollerset, or the rare flat iron. I hope to reach TB stretched/straightened & maintain at that length. :superbanana:

What do you like about your length?
Are you planning on stopping at HL or aiming for longer lengths?
What are you doing to enjoy your hair as it grows longer?
HHG!

I noticed those comments as well . I have some long layers and like you I intend to always have them. I have had WL hair that was all one length and I prefer layers. On me it is a softer look.

Right now HL stretched is as long as I want to go. I thought that anything longer than that would be too much for me. However, TB stretched is starting to sound good so who knows . I will have to see how I feel when I get to HL .

I really love my current length because it doesn't take much effort to make it look good. I braided my hair this week in about ten box braids with the intent of wearing a hat most of the week and just allowing the front braids to show. Nothing fancy right. Well my husband saw the braids and loved it so I wore it to church and got tons of compliments. Ten box braids that took me about 30 mins (if that) to do and you would have thought I had a gone to a beautician and gotten a fierce style . I would not have been able to pull that off with a shorter length.

But the thing I love most about my length is the way my daughter responds to it when it is braided or when its down and curly. She is 15 months old and she likes to play with it when I hold her. In her mind mommy's hair is a fun toy that she gets to play with every once in a while. She gets such a kick out of it. She is just starting to talk and sometimes she has little conversations with individual curls or braids; it melts my heart.

 

[mariofmagdal]

What do you like about your length?
Are you planning on stopping at HL or aiming for longer lengths?
What are you doing to enjoy your hair as it grows longer?
HHG!

I just like the fact that I am able to grow it. I am on a let's grow and see personal journey. I like to join the challenges because they are encouraging and fun.

At HL I probably won't stop, but I may begin to trim as I do desire one length, who knows that may change.

My daughter is having a great time watching it grow, she is more excited about length than me. Considering I wear buns all of the time, makes my length matter even less. No one would know unless I wear a banded pony. (I don't really like the banded pony anymore, but my daughter loves doing them for me. I know, I am such a "hair bore")

 

[Candy828]

I found this aricle interesting..... It really doesn't apply to us because we LOVE our long hair. But it is an inspiration to us taking the journey!
Ladies, Stop Cutting Your Hair!

By Andrei Trostel November 13, 2009 |
I don't know how many times I have heard a platonic female friend say how hard it is to attract a good man out there, but let's just say it's enough to make my ears bleed more than once a month. What this means, other than the fact that I buy more Tampax than they do now, is that single women are concerned that their dating pool is dwindling, especially as they get older. So it stands to reason that they might want to significantly increase their odds of drawing more men into their cross hairs. (Hey guys, isn't the idea of a woman sniper hot? I wrote that just for you, in order to counter act the Tampax joke.)
One thing that women often do to increase their chances of attracting men is get their hair cut. Oh and stop calling it "getting your hair done" like you just got your hair laid or something—you went and got it cut. Women think a hair cut makes them look young, fresh, new—more appealing to men. WRONG! Ladies, STOP cutting your hair, men HATE it! I'm here to tell you one of a man's innermost secret thoughts whenever we see that you got your hair cut: we wish you didn't. So ladies, listen up to what I am about to tell you, and to all the men out there reading this, you're …….. welcome!

First, let's get one thing straight. I'm not saying the number one thing a man looks for in a woman is long hair. In fact, in a recent scientific poll the number one thing men universally desire in women is a sense of humor (by about 75%). Surprising, I know. Apparently, smiling releases hormones that make you feel happier (duh). Thus, if you can make your man laugh, then he begins to mentally associate you with his own happiness.
However, on the subject of physical features ALONE, statistically, your hair is actually the first thing a guy looks at. I know you're thinking, "That's a load of crap! A man will always look at breasts/***/just about anything/legs/neck, before hair." WRONG AGAIN! The first thing a guy will check out on you, during the "3 second look over" is technically your hair. Yes, consciously he may not be aware that he looked at that first, but it turns out that hair is extremely important visually in the initial mating rituals of humans. Long luxurious flowing hair not only frames a woman's face, but sets the tone for her entire body, which is of course what the man will be looking at for the rest of the 2.999 seconds.

From purely physiological and psychological points of view, there are certain features and chemicals that humans naturally respond to, as animals. The visual appearance of health plays a major part in physical attraction for both genders. Often women with long hair appear more beautiful to men because the ability to grow long healthy looking hair is an indication of the continuous health of the individual growing it. In addition it is widely accepted that hair traps pheromones which get released from your body. Men respond to these pheromones on a chemical level, and start associating long hair with an overall more desirable woman. This is why, flirting wise, it works so well with men when women run their fingers through their hair, twirl it, or do the "hair-flip." Ladies, you are filling the air with your pheromones whether you know it or not. (Come on, you know it, just ……. admit it! Nobody annoyingly plays with their own hair that much!)
There is a report that women who have long hair actually have slightly higher levels of estrogen in their body, which lead to more female pheromones released. Those extra pheromones get trapped in her hair to be picked up by men, as she twirls and flips it like Indiana Jones using a whip to get what she wants. All of this extra pheromone scent makes long haired women more appealing, unless of course you find her scent repelling, then it just makes you want to vomit on her for her ridiculous hair antics.

There was also a recent study that stated that short haired women performed better in a professional arena, because their male co-workers subconsciously saw them as more masculine. Since most men do NOT want to see women they are dating as more masculine, then it stands to reason that a short haired woman has less of a chance of attracting the attention of a man. Hey, I didn't say the world doesn't suck or that it was fair, I am just trying to help you out by providing you with a window into the mind of a typical man.
Many short haired women out there will undoubtedly get upset and think that all of this is not true for everyone and subject to personal preference and they would be 100% correct. It definitely is subject to some opinion and there ARE indeed some men who prefer short hair on a woman. A recent scientific survey across multiple men's magazines, polling thousands of men, produced the answer to this question. "Do men prefer women with long hair or short hair?"
88% of men claimed to prefer long hair!!
8% claimed to prefer short hair.
4% said no preference one way or the other.
88% ladies!!!!!!
Wow, that is high, huh?!
Kind of makes you wonder why so many women cut their hair short and then tell you that they are having trouble attracting men, doesn't it?
There are several other points and advantages to keeping your hair long that are certainly worth mentioning as well......

 

[ADB]

I'd like to join this challenge. I'm about 1 or 2 inches from waist length right now. I think I have a good chance of making hip length this year if my hair keeps growing at this fast rate.

 

[schipperchow1]

My hair is growing out from layers as well. I got layers because my hair was so top heavy and no style looked right. So, if my hair were straightened and flowing down my back at hip length, is someone really gonna say that's not my length because all of my hair is not there? Wow.

Same with me. I get the Roseanna Roseanna Danna triangle head without layers...not a good look on me

 

[schipperchow1]

I noticed those comments as well . I have some long layers and like you I intend to always have them. I have had WL hair that was all one length and I prefer layers. On me it is a softer look.



I really love my current length because it doesn't take much effort to make it look good. I braided my hair this week in about ten box braids with the intent of wearing a hat most of the week and just allowing the front braids to show. Nothing fancy right. Well my husband saw the braids and loved it so I wore it to church and got tons of compliments. Ten box braids that took me about 30 mins (if that) to do and you would have thought I had a gone to a beautician and gotten a fierce style . I would not have been able to pull that off with a shorter length.

I think you forgot to post pics.

But the thing I love most about my length is the way my daughter responds to it when it is braided or when its down and curly. She is 15 months old and she likes to play with it when I hold her. In her mind mommy's hair is a fun toy that she gets to play with every once in a while. She gets such a kick out of it. She is just starting to talk and sometimes she has little conversations with individual curls or braids; it melts my heart.[/QUOTE]

That's so cute & brave of you to let her play in your tresses

 

[schipperchow1]

My daughter is having a great time watching it grow, she is more excited about length than me. Considering I wear buns all of the time, makes my length matter even less. No one would know unless I wear a banded pony. (I don't really like the banded pony anymore, but my daughter loves doing them for me. I know, I am such a "hair bore")

Do you do any special buns? Now that my hair is longer I want to start experimenting with different bun styles

 

[schipperchow1]

I'd like to join this challenge. I'm about 1 or 2 inches from waist length right now. I think I have a good chance of making hip length this year if my hair keeps growing at this fast rate.

I am no longer adding new challengers (Jan 14 was the cut off date) But please post. We are here to encourage everyone who wants to grow to HL & stay there or grow longer. HHG!

 

[mariofmagdal]

Do you do any special buns? Now that my hair is longer I want to start experimenting with different bun styles

No. My hair is so fine, when I tried to have the braided look with more than one twist in back, they all fell. I could not keep it secure to save my life. So I just wrap with my fingers leaving it somewhat loose, and secure with a scrunchie. My hair is too thin even for a single braid, it looks sickly to me, even my banded pony is thin.

 

[schipperchow1]

I found this aricle interesting..... It really doesn't apply to us because we LOVE our long hair. But it is an inspiration to us taking the journey!
Ladies, Stop Cutting Your Hair!

By Andrei Trostel November 13, 2009 |
I don't know how many times I have heard a platonic female friend say how hard it is to attract a good man out there, but let's just say it's enough to make my ears bleed more than once a month. What this means, other than the fact that I buy more Tampax than they do now, is that single women are concerned that their dating pool is dwindling, especially as they get older. So it stands to reason that they might want to significantly increase their odds of drawing more men into their cross hairs. (Hey guys, isn't the idea of a woman sniper hot? I wrote that just for you, in order to counter act the Tampax joke.)
One thing that women often do to increase their chances of attracting men is get their hair cut. Oh and stop calling it "getting your hair done" like you just got your hair laid or something—you went and got it cut. Women think a hair cut makes them look young, fresh, new—more appealing to men. WRONG! Ladies, STOP cutting your hair, men HATE it! I'm here to tell you one of a man's innermost secret thoughts whenever we see that you got your hair cut: we wish you didn't. So ladies, listen up to what I am about to tell you, and to all the men out there reading this, you're …….. welcome!

First, let's get one thing straight. I'm not saying the number one thing a man looks for in a woman is long hair. In fact, in a recent scientific poll the number one thing men universally desire in women is a sense of humor (by about 75%). Surprising, I know. Apparently, smiling releases hormones that make you feel happier (duh). Thus, if you can make your man laugh, then he begins to mentally associate you with his own happiness.
However, on the subject of physical features ALONE, statistically, your hair is actually the first thing a guy looks at. I know you're thinking, "That's a load of crap! A man will always look at breasts/***/just about anything/legs/neck, before hair." WRONG AGAIN! The first thing a guy will check out on you, during the "3 second look over" is technically your hair. Yes, consciously he may not be aware that he looked at that first, but it turns out that hair is extremely important visually in the initial mating rituals of humans. Long luxurious flowing hair not only frames a woman's face, but sets the tone for her entire body, which is of course what the man will be looking at for the rest of the 2.999 seconds.

From purely physiological and psychological points of view, there are certain features and chemicals that humans naturally respond to, as animals. The visual appearance of health plays a major part in physical attraction for both genders. Often women with long hair appear more beautiful to men because the ability to grow long healthy looking hair is an indication of the continuous health of the individual growing it. In addition it is widely accepted that hair traps pheromones which get released from your body. Men respond to these pheromones on a chemical level, and start associating long hair with an overall more desirable woman. This is why, flirting wise, it works so well with men when women run their fingers through their hair, twirl it, or do the "hair-flip." Ladies, you are filling the air with your pheromones whether you know it or not. (Come on, you know it, just ……. admit it! Nobody annoyingly plays with their own hair that much!)
There is a report that women who have long hair actually have slightly higher levels of estrogen in their body, which lead to more female pheromones released. Those extra pheromones get trapped in her hair to be picked up by men, as she twirls and flips it like Indiana Jones using a whip to get what she wants. All of this extra pheromone scent makes long haired women more appealing, unless of course you find her scent repelling, then it just makes you want to vomit on her for her ridiculous hair antics.

There was also a recent study that stated that short haired women performed better in a professional arena, because their male co-workers subconsciously saw them as more masculine. Since most men do NOT want to see women they are dating as more masculine, then it stands to reason that a short haired woman has less of a chance of attracting the attention of a man. Hey, I didn't say the world doesn't suck or that it was fair, I am just trying to help you out by providing you with a window into the mind of a typical man.
Many short haired women out there will undoubtedly get upset and think that all of this is not true for everyone and subject to personal preference and they would be 100% correct. It definitely is subject to some opinion and there ARE indeed some men who prefer short hair on a woman. A recent scientific survey across multiple men's magazines, polling thousands of men, produced the answer to this question. "Do men prefer women with long hair or short hair?"
88% of men claimed to prefer long hair!!
8% claimed to prefer short hair.
4% said no preference one way or the other.
88% ladies!!!!!!
Wow, that is high, huh?!
Kind of makes you wonder why so many women cut their hair short and then tell you that they are having trouble attracting men, doesn't it?
There are several other points and advantages to keeping your hair long that are certainly worth mentioning as well......

I generally wouldn't quote a whole post, but I agree with all of this. A few months ago, a few men were complimenting me on my hair (it was a loose roller set) & inquiring as to why I never wear it out when a short haired woman (one of the guy's sister) came into the room. Now she has a very nice short cut, similar to one of Halle's older looks & not one I would try to carry off.. but she was highly upset about the positive comments about my hair & its length & arguing with the guys about how nice her short hair was. Now her brother & other guys told her that they told her she shouldn't cut it & that they prefer long hair on women...she was not hearing it I just left the room. How are you going to argue against the preference of not one but of 5 men of different generations & ethnicities?