Whimsy and Dee Raven, your hair is GORGEOUS!!!!
As for me, I'm in a pickle. My mother passed away on Saturday. (I'm fine. I know y'all love me and care. Thank you. No need to interupt the hair conversations). So, I'm running around like crazy trying to get everything in place. The service is this Saturday (giving out of town folks time to get here) and I will see fam that I haven't seen in as many as 20 years. I'm 8.5 months post (or somewhere around there) so, my problem is what to do with this hair.
I want to show off my new length and healthy hair to those who remember me with skimpy apl-ish hair and still thought I had it going on. But, to do that, I'll need to flat iron, at the very least. And I'm not to good with flat ironing and being patient. My other alternative is a cute SL wig that I just bought but, the women in my family will straight call me out for wearing a wig. "Why are you wearing a wig? Where's all that hair you used to have?" And I mean, these chicks are bold with it. Hands will be all up in my head. I repeat, hands WILL be all up in my head.
I sort of saw myself in a hat with my hair bunned but, the hat would come off eventually.
I'm in a No Heat challenge and haven't done much of anything to my hair in 2 months. What should I do? I'm scared to go to a hairdresser because of the two textures. Otherwise, a Dominican Blowout would be on my to-do list. And even if I flat iron it myself, I'm no good at styling.
What's a sista to do? Grieving or not, my physical appearance will be scrutinized. Vanity and jokes run deep on my mom's side. And worse, those who come down are responsible for letting everyone who couldn't come know how we're doing and what we have going on. If the haters i my family catch me slippin, it will sho nuff be broadcast throughout the family. Does that matter to me? Darn skippy. These people are relentless and worse than any general hater you find in the streets.
Anyway, what ta do? What ta do?