daydreem2876
carpe diem
Ok ladies I need some help...
My MonkeyButt (theoretically, we are not "together" but we are not "apart" and I have to refer to him as something... It really is a different discussion for a different day ).
Anyway, my MonkeyButt is a workaholic and that is starting to take its on him physically. His job is pretty demanding, he works all hours of the day and night for days on end, and when he is not there they call him to ask questions. Of course, he thinks he is Superman and when he is asked, he will always come through. On top of that he is the dependable friend and brother, so whenever anyone needs anything they call MonkeyButt who is there in a flash to help in anyway.
Now, I can't stop him from being who he is (that's part of the reason I like him) and would not dare to try because I cant stop him from being who he is. But here recently, he keeps telling me he's tired, he looks drained, and overall he is not taking good care of himself (not eating well, not getting proper rest, etc.). My plan is to get out there (we are long distance) for a weekend, fix him a few good meals for his freezer, get him some vitamins and herbs, hang some black out curtains (he cant sleep during the day), and other relaxation activities
But it is really going to take more than that and I really dont know how to approach it with him. How do you tell Superman that he needs to slow down, go see a doctor, and tell people to kick rocks sometimes because he needs a little me time
My MonkeyButt (theoretically, we are not "together" but we are not "apart" and I have to refer to him as something... It really is a different discussion for a different day ).
Anyway, my MonkeyButt is a workaholic and that is starting to take its on him physically. His job is pretty demanding, he works all hours of the day and night for days on end, and when he is not there they call him to ask questions. Of course, he thinks he is Superman and when he is asked, he will always come through. On top of that he is the dependable friend and brother, so whenever anyone needs anything they call MonkeyButt who is there in a flash to help in anyway.
Now, I can't stop him from being who he is (that's part of the reason I like him) and would not dare to try because I cant stop him from being who he is. But here recently, he keeps telling me he's tired, he looks drained, and overall he is not taking good care of himself (not eating well, not getting proper rest, etc.). My plan is to get out there (we are long distance) for a weekend, fix him a few good meals for his freezer, get him some vitamins and herbs, hang some black out curtains (he cant sleep during the day), and other relaxation activities
But it is really going to take more than that and I really dont know how to approach it with him. How do you tell Superman that he needs to slow down, go see a doctor, and tell people to kick rocks sometimes because he needs a little me time