I am a terrible terrible person to my poor hair..I know the proper way to handle my hair, but in the back I have been very rough with it and as a result the back of my hair area is seriously broken off and the ends are badly split and stuff...if I go to the sylist at home i used to go to, or anyone else and try to get a trim, they wont give me one just back there, they'll try to "even it up"...everywhere. So...should I just leave it alone and baby it until its time for me to retouch in may, and hope its grown out enough by then to not have to cut all the hair off in the back?!?!?! what should I do!!!