Hello beautiful ladies - I hope you are all doing well.
I haven't been on the forum for a while, but immediately came on today to ask for some assistance from some prayer warriors here in the forum. You ladies have been there for me during some difficult times in my life, and I am hoping this will be no different.
I've been with my man for 8 years now, and we've had our ups and downs. We were separated for a few months this time last year, and I believe it was at that point that the enemy tried to creep into our relationship by using a temptress.
There is this girl at my hubby's work place who is infatuated with him - now he's a very handsome man so this is to be expected and actually this isn't the first. He works in an environment where he has to communicate with this girl sometimes outside of work, but she has taken the opportunity to cross the lines too many times. She would message him late at night, ask him to go out with her and her friends, dress up so he would notice her - all of this he has told me. I of course was outraged and went down to his workplace to deal with her but she wasn't there (lucky for her) He assured me he would deal with it, but didn't want to be too aggressive for fear she would get jealous and cause problems for him at work (i.e. woman cries wolf, token black man is guilty) I mean you just never know with crazy thirsty women like this. The sad thing is she knows about me and our family, but is still so disrespectful. I take a huge offence to that. It's different when the other woman doesn't know, but you know and you're still pressing him? Being thirsty isn't cute at all I don't know what's wrong with this girls...not even going to call them women because a real woman knows her place and knows that God isn't going to give them someone elses husband.
I was using his phone and saw a message from her - she asks him if he liked a particular article of clothing she was wearing that day. I flew off the handle, I was going to call her and cuss her out but I said no - he has to deal with her and this time more aggressively since a polite let down wasn't working for her. And so he responded and asked her if she had forgotten about the conversation he had with her about being professional and discussing work issues only. It was clear in her response that she was embarrassed, but I don't think she will stop as this isn't the first time he's spoken to her.
I honestly believe this is an attack on our relationship and the enemy is working overtime. It really bothers me because this is someone at work, not some annoying ex girlfriend who keeps calling. I need all of you to help me pray against her and this situation. If any of you have gone through the same things, and have suggestive prayers or actions please let me know. Right now I feel like praying God moves her away from that location, and obviously to continue to pray for his mind.
Thanks in advance
I haven't been on the forum for a while, but immediately came on today to ask for some assistance from some prayer warriors here in the forum. You ladies have been there for me during some difficult times in my life, and I am hoping this will be no different.
I've been with my man for 8 years now, and we've had our ups and downs. We were separated for a few months this time last year, and I believe it was at that point that the enemy tried to creep into our relationship by using a temptress.
There is this girl at my hubby's work place who is infatuated with him - now he's a very handsome man so this is to be expected and actually this isn't the first. He works in an environment where he has to communicate with this girl sometimes outside of work, but she has taken the opportunity to cross the lines too many times. She would message him late at night, ask him to go out with her and her friends, dress up so he would notice her - all of this he has told me. I of course was outraged and went down to his workplace to deal with her but she wasn't there (lucky for her) He assured me he would deal with it, but didn't want to be too aggressive for fear she would get jealous and cause problems for him at work (i.e. woman cries wolf, token black man is guilty) I mean you just never know with crazy thirsty women like this. The sad thing is she knows about me and our family, but is still so disrespectful. I take a huge offence to that. It's different when the other woman doesn't know, but you know and you're still pressing him? Being thirsty isn't cute at all I don't know what's wrong with this girls...not even going to call them women because a real woman knows her place and knows that God isn't going to give them someone elses husband.
I was using his phone and saw a message from her - she asks him if he liked a particular article of clothing she was wearing that day. I flew off the handle, I was going to call her and cuss her out but I said no - he has to deal with her and this time more aggressively since a polite let down wasn't working for her. And so he responded and asked her if she had forgotten about the conversation he had with her about being professional and discussing work issues only. It was clear in her response that she was embarrassed, but I don't think she will stop as this isn't the first time he's spoken to her.
I honestly believe this is an attack on our relationship and the enemy is working overtime. It really bothers me because this is someone at work, not some annoying ex girlfriend who keeps calling. I need all of you to help me pray against her and this situation. If any of you have gone through the same things, and have suggestive prayers or actions please let me know. Right now I feel like praying God moves her away from that location, and obviously to continue to pray for his mind.
Thanks in advance