dm81
Well-Known Member
Hey guys,
I was wondering if any of you could give me some advice. I'll try to make this as short as possible.
There is a guy at my job who likes me. We were discussing Valentine's Day and I had mentioned to him that I didn't have a Valentine. So he hands me a note, and it says that he would love to make Valentine's Day up to me by taking me out and to give him a call. So before he leaves for the day he comes up to me and asks me if I'll call. I had already disclosed to him that I wasn't in a relationship...and I wasn't going to be a b!tch and say "HELL NO!"...so I told him that I'd call.
Even though I'm not really attracted to him, I had discussed it with a friend who told me to just go out on the date and see how it goes...the "You Never Know Factor", he could turn out to be a great guy. So I call him and there wasn't much chemistry...even though he seemed to really enjoy the convo.
So last Monday I call him, and he didn't return my phone call. I didn't think much of it, because he could've been sleeping or whatever since I had called him late.I don't get a return phone call until Thursday, but by then I had written him off because I wasn't interested and three days had passed. Now this guy has the same name as my dad and in my phone I had put DNA (Do Not Answer) next to his name. Now when he called on Thurs I was sleeping and when I see the name, I'm thinking it's my dad and ignore it. Five minutes later I call back, because I'm thinking maybe my dad needs something. So I call back no answer...call back again...no answer. Mind you, I'm sleepy and I'm thinking that I'm calling my father, lolol.
So anyway, I go back to sleep. When I wake up I check my phone, got a couple of emails and a missed call. So when I check the log, I realize that I had called work dude, not my dad!
He never returned my call that evening (even though I didn't care), and I hear nothing from him on Friday. So that just solidified everything for me, he's playing games...the phone tag thing is really silly to me. Saturday, I'm in the middle of a great dream...Oprah and I are shopping and all of a sudden I hear a little bloop sound. Anyone with a BB knows that bloop sound that you get when you receive a text. So it's 6:15 in the morning and I'm like WHO in the world is this?! I'm thinking it might be a family member or something, so I check and it's HIM! The text reads "Hey"...I was pissed.
So he calls me a couple of times that day and I don't answer. He calls yesterday...I don't answer.
Now, if I never had to see this man again, I wouldn't have a problem just ignoring him, but since we work at the same place the situation is totally different.
So I SLYDIAL (BEST INVENTION EVAR!!!) him, and say that I think we should keep this relationship on a platonic level since our schedules don't seem to mesh well hence us not being able to speak on the phone. I also mention that I think he's a nice guy and blah blah blah. Now my friend told me that this would NOT work, and I didn't believe her. I mean if a dude sent me a message like that...then boom it's over.
Well he calls me back like 2 minutes after I had sent that voicemail. So I ask him if he received it, and he's like yeah and asked if I meant what I saidand I say well yeah...our schedules don't mesh. He said he would FIX his schedule!!! He said WE COULD MAKE THIS WORK IF WE TRIED...I am absolutely FLOORED.
So he says we can go out this weekend...and me being the nice WUSS that I am tentatively agree..
Please help me get out of this. Thanks.
I was wondering if any of you could give me some advice. I'll try to make this as short as possible.
There is a guy at my job who likes me. We were discussing Valentine's Day and I had mentioned to him that I didn't have a Valentine. So he hands me a note, and it says that he would love to make Valentine's Day up to me by taking me out and to give him a call. So before he leaves for the day he comes up to me and asks me if I'll call. I had already disclosed to him that I wasn't in a relationship...and I wasn't going to be a b!tch and say "HELL NO!"...so I told him that I'd call.
Even though I'm not really attracted to him, I had discussed it with a friend who told me to just go out on the date and see how it goes...the "You Never Know Factor", he could turn out to be a great guy. So I call him and there wasn't much chemistry...even though he seemed to really enjoy the convo.
So last Monday I call him, and he didn't return my phone call. I didn't think much of it, because he could've been sleeping or whatever since I had called him late.I don't get a return phone call until Thursday, but by then I had written him off because I wasn't interested and three days had passed. Now this guy has the same name as my dad and in my phone I had put DNA (Do Not Answer) next to his name. Now when he called on Thurs I was sleeping and when I see the name, I'm thinking it's my dad and ignore it. Five minutes later I call back, because I'm thinking maybe my dad needs something. So I call back no answer...call back again...no answer. Mind you, I'm sleepy and I'm thinking that I'm calling my father, lolol.
So anyway, I go back to sleep. When I wake up I check my phone, got a couple of emails and a missed call. So when I check the log, I realize that I had called work dude, not my dad!
He never returned my call that evening (even though I didn't care), and I hear nothing from him on Friday. So that just solidified everything for me, he's playing games...the phone tag thing is really silly to me. Saturday, I'm in the middle of a great dream...Oprah and I are shopping and all of a sudden I hear a little bloop sound. Anyone with a BB knows that bloop sound that you get when you receive a text. So it's 6:15 in the morning and I'm like WHO in the world is this?! I'm thinking it might be a family member or something, so I check and it's HIM! The text reads "Hey"...I was pissed.
So he calls me a couple of times that day and I don't answer. He calls yesterday...I don't answer.
Now, if I never had to see this man again, I wouldn't have a problem just ignoring him, but since we work at the same place the situation is totally different.
So I SLYDIAL (BEST INVENTION EVAR!!!) him, and say that I think we should keep this relationship on a platonic level since our schedules don't seem to mesh well hence us not being able to speak on the phone. I also mention that I think he's a nice guy and blah blah blah. Now my friend told me that this would NOT work, and I didn't believe her. I mean if a dude sent me a message like that...then boom it's over.
Well he calls me back like 2 minutes after I had sent that voicemail. So I ask him if he received it, and he's like yeah and asked if I meant what I saidand I say well yeah...our schedules don't mesh. He said he would FIX his schedule!!! He said WE COULD MAKE THIS WORK IF WE TRIED...I am absolutely FLOORED.
So he says we can go out this weekend...and me being the nice WUSS that I am tentatively agree..
Please help me get out of this. Thanks.