Frostipuff
New Member
Short intro: I'm so happy to have found this site. Of what
I can tell of the posts, there are many thoughtful intelligent
women here that seem to be very supportive of one another.
I'm 42 with a serious hair crisis. I have-or had-thick shoulder
length hair that up until now has been resonably healthy even
with touch ups every 8 wks with a semi-perm color applied at
the same time. Recently I left my stylist of 4 years after she
lost interest in me and started doing my hair without regard to
what I wanted or needed. I got sick of her numerous phone
conversations while she was doing my hair. I ended up going
to several different salons at the reccommenation of friends
and ended up with half my hair left on my hair.
Here's why. On person put permanant hair color on my hair
which lifted my color AFTER a relaxer.
The next person used Mizani when she gave me a touch up
which left my hair terribly underprocessed and my relaxed
new growth feeling "crunchy". The color she used did not
cover my gray.
The last person noted that I had permanant hair color in
my hair gave me a great consult only to use Vitale relaxer
on my new growth, which melted half my hair off of my head.
What did not melt off is coming out each time I comb my
hair-so much so that I can now see through my hair and feel
a breeze on my scalp for the first time in my life.
Before leaving the last salon, I noticed a lot of hair coming
out while she was combing my hair and her comment was
"oh, it's the permanant hair color doing that". She didn't
bother to use a protein treatment on me-she sent me home.
Only after a terse call to her did she tell me what I needed
and scheduled me to come right back at which time she
used aphorgee to curb some of the loss.
I'm sickened every time I look in the mirror. My hair has a
strange texture at the roots that feels "crunchy" and the
front and sides of my hair is either bald or has very short
hair. I have used the Aphrogee protein treatment once
since she did one month ago. I've started taking hair,
skin, and nail vitamins, I've purchased the entire line
of Aphrogee hair products, I am careful about combing
out my hair after washing it, which is often since I work
out daily and sweat up a storm. I have to wash it at
least three times a week. Since I hate to see gray roots
and I'm afraid to have it colored or color it myself, I use
a mascara like color wand that makes my hair feel worse,
but covers some of the gray.
I just don't know what to do. I am seriously afraid of
allowing another soul to do my hair and I have limited
experience in doing my hair. I am encouraged to try since
so many of you ladies have had beautiful results doing your
own relaxers and even coloring your hair.
I need advice ASAP. I currently have my hair cut so that
it brushes my shoulders. It looks so unhealthy at this point
that I wonder if I should just cut it all off and wear a wig
until it grows back.
The only ray of light is that since I started the vitimins,
I can see quite a bit of new growth in just one month.
I need to understand why my roots feel so "crunchy"-
they never have in the past, what hair color line to
use to cover the gray-I must cover the gray since I
hate to see it, and finally, how should I manage the hair
I have left and why did it all fall out?
Thank you in advance. Sorry for the long rambling post.
I'm just so upset and angry!
Loretta
I can tell of the posts, there are many thoughtful intelligent
women here that seem to be very supportive of one another.
I'm 42 with a serious hair crisis. I have-or had-thick shoulder
length hair that up until now has been resonably healthy even
with touch ups every 8 wks with a semi-perm color applied at
the same time. Recently I left my stylist of 4 years after she
lost interest in me and started doing my hair without regard to
what I wanted or needed. I got sick of her numerous phone
conversations while she was doing my hair. I ended up going
to several different salons at the reccommenation of friends
and ended up with half my hair left on my hair.
Here's why. On person put permanant hair color on my hair
which lifted my color AFTER a relaxer.
The next person used Mizani when she gave me a touch up
which left my hair terribly underprocessed and my relaxed
new growth feeling "crunchy". The color she used did not
cover my gray.
The last person noted that I had permanant hair color in
my hair gave me a great consult only to use Vitale relaxer
on my new growth, which melted half my hair off of my head.
What did not melt off is coming out each time I comb my
hair-so much so that I can now see through my hair and feel
a breeze on my scalp for the first time in my life.
Before leaving the last salon, I noticed a lot of hair coming
out while she was combing my hair and her comment was
"oh, it's the permanant hair color doing that". She didn't
bother to use a protein treatment on me-she sent me home.
Only after a terse call to her did she tell me what I needed
and scheduled me to come right back at which time she
used aphorgee to curb some of the loss.
I'm sickened every time I look in the mirror. My hair has a
strange texture at the roots that feels "crunchy" and the
front and sides of my hair is either bald or has very short
hair. I have used the Aphrogee protein treatment once
since she did one month ago. I've started taking hair,
skin, and nail vitamins, I've purchased the entire line
of Aphrogee hair products, I am careful about combing
out my hair after washing it, which is often since I work
out daily and sweat up a storm. I have to wash it at
least three times a week. Since I hate to see gray roots
and I'm afraid to have it colored or color it myself, I use
a mascara like color wand that makes my hair feel worse,
but covers some of the gray.
I just don't know what to do. I am seriously afraid of
allowing another soul to do my hair and I have limited
experience in doing my hair. I am encouraged to try since
so many of you ladies have had beautiful results doing your
own relaxers and even coloring your hair.
I need advice ASAP. I currently have my hair cut so that
it brushes my shoulders. It looks so unhealthy at this point
that I wonder if I should just cut it all off and wear a wig
until it grows back.
The only ray of light is that since I started the vitimins,
I can see quite a bit of new growth in just one month.
I need to understand why my roots feel so "crunchy"-
they never have in the past, what hair color line to
use to cover the gray-I must cover the gray since I
hate to see it, and finally, how should I manage the hair
I have left and why did it all fall out?
Thank you in advance. Sorry for the long rambling post.
I'm just so upset and angry!
Loretta