It is and it's really sad. I often visit
www.bwhi.org to keep up to date, it's a topic that has become an obsession for me really. We often think that healthy
food takes a lot of time to prepare and often times, we're already exhausted from work. So we keep overworking ourselves and then paying a ton of medical bills and for convenience food.
Cooking at home has really been the solution to my ails, it's an ongoing process but I'm seeing wonderful results already. We need to change the way we look at food: as mentioned in an Essence book on Black Women's health --> healthy food IS delicious.
Stress is my biggest pitfall as well, the only solution is to simplify life as much as possible. I don't have children right now, but from what I observe from women who do, they're mostly running these children from one activity to the next WHILE working 8 or more hours a day outside the home :Nono:. Another tip that really helps me is: stress is NOT the situation itself, it's your response to the situation.
Exercise has to do with our subconscious: we have an either/or mentality instead of an and/and mentality. Just to give an example: two days ago I had to start work at noon. But I also had to run an errand, exercise and get to work on time. So I walked to work for 1h30min. Since the recycling park is nearby my job, I just went there to drop a few plastics I had at home and then headed on my merry way to work. It was windy, but it wasn't that cold. And even so, I purchased a thick coat & some boots to remain active even during this period. It's small adjustments that reap big rewards in the end. It's crucial in this case as it pertains to our livelihood.