He Told Last Year He Wanted A Divorce!

[Curlykutie]

And we still aren't divorce yet! What is he waiting on?

 

[blackmaven]

Maybe waiting on wife to file.

It might be cheaper to keep her

 

[Curlykutie]

I'm not filing he wants the divorce!

 

[Curlykutie]

And it is cheaper because he has to give me half of his pension!

 

[LiftedUp]

Maybe he's bluffing.

I say that because that's what my cousin's wife did and he ended up filing... much to her dismay.

 

[Curlykutie]

Well he says he doesn't want to be married at all. We don't live together anymore!

 

[swtpea]

Can you file, citing abandonment since you no longer live together? (May not be a choice in your state)

 

[Curlykutie]

I can however I'm not working and I depend on him for my health insurance!

 

[biznesswmn]

I can however I'm not working and I depend on him for my health insurance!

Ask a lawyer but he still has to cover u until u get your own. It can be part of your settlement if thats the route u wanna take

 

[sgold04]

My dad said he wanted a divorce from my mom, cheated, moved out, and 2 years later still never filed. My mom had to file the papers. I think men are cowards in these situations. They can put the blame on the wife for officially ending the marriage.

 

[Curlykutie]

My dad said he wanted a divorce from my mom, cheated, moved out, and 2 years later still never filed. My mom had to file the papers. I think men are cowards in these situations. They can put the blame on the wife for officially ending the marriage.

I'm not filing because I don't want a divorce.

 

[Curlykutie]

Ask a lawyer but he still has to cover u until u get your own. It can be part of your settlement if thats the route u wanna take

From all my research he doesn't have to keep me on his health insurance!

 

[awhyley]

Does he have a girlfriend? Maybe he's waiting to find someone else. Generally, when there's another woman, they're quicker to want to move on. In the meantime, get your affairs in order before you get replaced.

 

[biznesswmn]

From all my research he doesn't have to keep me on his health insurance!

What i mean to say is, if the court says he has to then he has to. If that is part of the divorce agreement...your lawyer can negotiate that for u. Esp if u hav an underlyg health condition. It doesnt seem right that a judge would leave u out there hi and dry just bcuz HE (husb) doesnt want to cover u anymore.

In the meantime, work on gettg yourself on the path to independence so u dont have to sit around worryg how to maneuver. U can find work and get your own health insurance. If he doesnt want to be married, its time to focus on curlykutie, not on why hes not doing this or that. Im speakg from experience. Its hard but its necessary, for your own well being and peace of mind

 

[Curlykutie]

What i mean to say is, if the court says he has to then he has to. If that is part of the divorce agreement...your lawyer can negotiate that for u. Esp if u hav an underlyg health condition. It doesnt seem right that a judge would leave u out there hi and dry just bcuz HE (husb) doesnt want to cover u anymore.

In the meantime, work on gettg yourself on the path to independence so u dont have to sit around worryg how to maneuver. U can find work and get your own health insurance. If he doesnt want to be married, its time to focus on curlykutie, not on why hes not doing this or that. Im speakg from experience. Its hard but its necessary, for your own well being and peace of mind

Thank you very much! I needed that!