He is a nice person I can't complain about that but not exciting. He calls every day to see how my day was, and how I am feeling that day. He seems really caring but that is about it. Even when we go out he does not come up with an idea, I ask what do you want to do? his response is as long as he is with me it does not matter, so I can choose he is cool with anything. That may sound sweet but in the begginng you want the guy to romance you and try to make you fall for him but he is just making me fall asleep. Lord forgive me.
Ugh.... I dated a guy like this once.
Not only was he boring, but he wasn't too bright either.
I wasn't that attracted to him either, so I eventually ended up breaking things off with him. I felt bad about it in the end, but the conversation was just BORING! No life! I couldn't explain it!
I like a guy to challenge me, to have a lively conversation...even if we're just ribbing each other.
Either way, we should have SOMETHING to talk and laugh about.
In this guy's defense, I'll just add... Do you think that maybe he's a little on the shy side? Is he quiet by nature? Perhaps he just gets nervous around YOU? I know that when I have really liked a guy in the past, I was SOOO nervous around him. I didn't know what to say! I couldn't think straight, and I always used to beat myself up wondering why I would get so mute around him. If ONLY he knew my REAL personality! So, maybe just let him know that you want him to open up more...and let him feel comfortable around you.
I think he's VERY into you. Any guy who calls you every single day and doesn't care what he does as long as it's with you is a man who likes you A LOT.
So....it could be he's just very nervous about making a good impression around you, and so he doesn't want to screw things up by saying the wrong thing. A lot of guys are like that in the beginning of relationships. What he
doesn't realize however is that he's making a worse impression by NOT saying too much.
If after this little "talk" you have with him he still fails to open up, or he's boring, then I say drop him.
Call it "lack of chemistry" or whatever. I don't know about anyone else, but I need
SOME type of chemistry and interesting conversation with a guy I'm dating.