He cheated......

Oh yes! :lol: I would want to know and not want to know at the same time.

The who, when, and why is important to me. Everything else I don't care about.
 
Yes, if Im going to know I need to know all. Especially the where. because if it was anywhere in my house, I might kill him
 
In the past, I wanted to know. But now I feel like the fact that he did it is more than enough info for me to make a decision. Where he did it makes no difference to me. Disrespect is disrespect. I won't conduct an investigation once I know for sure that he is guilty. He can just GTFO.
 
I think I would only want to know who, but honestly I am not even sure I would want to know that information.
 
So for those that want to know it all. Do you want to know things like positions, how many times, orgasms, oral etc...
 
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So for those that want to know it all. Do you want to know things like positions, how many times, orgasms, oral etc...
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:giggle:

I want to know who, why, when and where...I think these things are important in helping me to make my decision.

Who: family member....deal breaker

Why: because I wanted to....I'll bust your head to the white meat, dude don't play.

When: every Friday for the past 2 years....oh Hellz naw!!!

Where: in our bed, the kitchen table, the sofa, the hallway....WTF!!!
 
All I would want to know is "who" away from that all the other details wouldn't matter.

The who is the only the thing that makes the situation worst..esp if it's someone you know.
 
I'd want to know. It would help me answer the question: How did I miss that?

But ultimately, the details wouldn't make a difference.
 
not really, just knowing that you cheated is enough for me to make my decision, there are no extenuating circumstances so there's no need to let me know how many times you did the deed ...'with who'only becomes important if it's someone that I know...
 
I really wouldn't want to know, but would request all details because him telling me the details is a form of making him suffer and would be the beginning of his suffering. When I'm done, he would have rather a canning by the Chinese government.
 
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I would want to know all the details. IME, men do not give all the details.
How would you really know that he's being upfront and honest about everything that happened? Unless you became suspicious about his cheating and hired a P.I., chances are you won't.
 
moda said:
So for those that want to know it all. Do you want to know things like positions, how many times, orgasms, oral etc...
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No I dont need that level of detail

I need to know the who (or whos)

where it occured

when (how long ago, how many encounters)

why

And of course the more important


How soon can he gather his stuff and get his cheating arse out of my house before I find some blunt instrument and start busting up body parts. But since I'm nice, I'll let you choose which one goes first.

Not to leave out the brief discussion on how much of his money I'm going to take in the settlement (ie all of it)
 
Who? Someone you saw on a regular basis that I might have encountered?
How often? A regular thing or 1 time.
Raw?
Where? Our house, business trips, our car, etc.?
Who else knew? How many people looked in my face & knew this was happening?
 
Yes..I need to know..right before I go HAM and after my mom post my bail...lol..
but seriously, if I dont know, you better not say anything...ever..internalize it, let it turn into an ulcer, whatever, but dont tell me..If I find out on my own, then I want to know it all. I think I deserve an explanation..while Im out here keeping it tight for you, you in the sandbox with another chic..
I just got mad at my imaginary SO with this thread...lol

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I personally wouldn't need to know the details if I had planned on leaving. But, if I were uncertain, I would want to know more details.
 
I would want to know who, why and when... I would need to make sure it was no one that I knew this way if I did know the person I can cut her and him out of my life... Wouldn't want to be sittin there laughin it up with the B**** that was slutting around my Ex Man-whore.:nono:
 
The why, what, when, where, and how don't matter but I would want to know the who because Im pretty sure she knows who I am.
 
When I got cheated on, I had to know every detail. Every single grimy detail...even tho each new piece of knowledge hurt more than what it was before. I had to know the frequency, how did he feel about her (found out it was them...ie, plural), did he get head? Give it? Did he f*** them in "our" position? Oh, so that's not "our" position? Its your signiture stuff?? Was she good? Which would you say gave you the best head? Mary or Jane or Anna? Whoa really? Crazy. I remember laughing (which my current SO says is a sign of temp insanity, lol)....

I just had to know everything in order to heal.

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Klearli said:
When I got cheated on, I had to know every detail. Every single grimy detail...even tho each new piece of knowledge hurt more than what it was before. I had to know the frequency, how did he feel about her (found out it was them...ie, plural), did he get head? Give it? Did he f*** them in "our" position? Oh, so that's not "our" position? Its your signiture stuff?? Was she good? Which would you say gave you the best head? Mary or Jane or Anna? Whoa really? Crazy. I remember laughing (which my current SO says is a sign of temp insanity, lol)....

I just had to know everything in order to heal.

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I would go this route, whether I stayed or not.
 
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Naw I didn't really want to know or need to know anything. Just wtf are u calling me cause its over.

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