I'm just asking for real life stories. I know that everyone has their "hypothetical" situation on what they would and would not do, but with all due respect...you never know what you're gonna do until you catch yourself in that very situation.
I'm waiting to read them. I DO know what I would do though and I would NOT cheat.
Yes I did years ago. I had to tell my hubby because the guy was stalking and blackmailing me and wouldn't leave me alone. I put him in jail twice and was going to do it the third time; however, I told my husband and my blackmailer backed off when I told him my husband knows. Dear hubby forgave me and all is good, we have been married 17 years.
Yes I did years ago. I had to tell my hubby because the guy was stalking and blackmailing me and wouldn't leave me alone. I put him in jail twice and was going to do it the third time; however, I told my husband and my blackmailer backed off when I told him my husband knows. Dear hubby forgave me and all is good, we have been married 17 years.
Yes I did years ago. I had to tell my hubby because the guy was stalking and blackmailing me and wouldn't leave me alone. I put him in jail twice and was going to do it the third time; however, I told my husband and my blackmailer backed off when I told him my husband knows. Dear hubby forgave me and all is good, we have been married 17 years.
I have. I didn't tell though so no one ever knew.
If you don't mind me asking, did your relationship work out?
I'm just asking for real life stories. I know that everyone has their "hypothetical" situation on what they would and would not do, but with all due respect...you never know what you're gonna do until you catch yourself in that very situation.
This is not true for me. I've said exactly what I would do in X situation, been put in X situation and have done what I have said I would do.
To answer your question: Yes I've cheated (with a friend at the time). Yes he took me back (on the condition I stopped talking to that friend forever). No it didn't last. I was playing too many games.
I'm glad I got it out of my system before I met DH.
Well, I know that there are things in life (in general) where I already know my outcome of what I'd do. But in regards to certain situations with certain circumstances, there's no 100% guarantee that it'll never happen to you. That's all I'm saying.
TSUprincess04 said:you never know what you're gonna do until you catch yourself in that very situation.
Well, I know that there are things in life (in general) where I already know my outcome of what I'd do. But in regards to certain situations with certain circumstances, there's no 100% guarantee that it'll never happen to you. That's all I'm saying.
^^^^^^I disagree , it's all about values and self control. I know there are some things that I will NEVER do and I'd bet the farm on it
^^^^^^I disagree , it's all about values and self control. I know there are some things that I will NEVER do and I'd bet the farm on it
A friend of mine had her fiance cheat on her for 3 years straight with the same woman. He met this girl a year before their wedding...he cheated on her 1 day before the wedding, 1 week after their honeymoon, and still continues to do it now.
My friend turns a blind eye but she knows....the other woman has even been to their house when she wasn't home...
Sounds like your friend needs to visit Beat Down City.
If I could, I'd throw in a jab.
The situation is not cool at all. Noone has said anything, we all just turn a blind eye. But if I know, im sure she knows, as i'm not even in their close inner circle.
The other woman he is dealing with is young with a big mouth so word quickly got out.
Those are two different statements. You don't know what you will do versus you don't know that will never happen to you.
I still think you can only speak for yourself because you only know yourself like that. You have no idea what someone else will do or how they are. Some people have a set mind and will do what they say they will regardless of any circumstance and/or the consequences. We're all different.
I'm just asking for real life stories. I know that everyone has their "hypothetical" situation on what they would and would not do, but with all due respect...you never know what you're gonna do until you catch yourself in that very situation.
Those are two different statements. You don't know what you will do versus you don't know that will never happen to you.
I still think you can only speak for yourself because you only know yourself like that. You have no idea what someone else will do or how they are. Some people have a set mind and will do what they say they will regardless of any circumstance and/or the consequences. We're all different.