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winterinatl said:I used to wear my hair down/out growing from chin to shoulder. Had the hardest time passing shoulder and armpit length; and now I am stuck at the length you see now. I only consciously wore protective styles the last two or three years, and it did help me.
My personal thought is that the less manual stress on the hair, the better. If the protective style is going to stress your hair, or you are combing and brushing too much to achieve it, it won't make a difference. Likewise if you wear your hair out but don't comb it and it's able to recieve lubrication from your scalp and oils you add, you will retain the length and see growth.
Qetesh said:This is something I am struggling with I have mid-back length hair and its never grown past this, but I am challenging myself to get an extra 4 inches to take me to waist length!!![]()
My problem is I like to wear my hair down too much I know its getting cold out but I still wanna wear my hair down, I have stopped using heat and I have my hair in a natural style, my question is can I still expect to see results even tho I am wearing my hair down nearly everyday, I do moisturize wash and put my air up in a silk scarf at night.
lnhair said:I know this may be off topic but how are you able to wear your hair out and down everyday ? I am natural also, its baffling. What is your routine. I press my hair every now and then and it naps right back up. So i am always it in a protective style. i would love to wear my hair out more and it not have some many tangles in it by the end of the day. When you are wearing it out is it pressed or in its natural state? i know this is alot. Can i please get some help? Pretty Please.
nappywomyn said:I HAVE to wear my hair in protective styles in order for me to retain length - I have seen the difference in makes in jsut a month of wearing my hair 'out' vs. a month of wearing protective styles.
One thing that most likely makes a HUGE difference in your ability to wear your hair out and retain length is the thickness/coarseness of your hair strands. If your strands are thick - they are going to be able to endure a HECK of a lot more manipulation/rubbing/etc than someone with very fine strands of hair.
I've heard that once you get past a certain 'stall' point, your hair will continue to grow - so I would suggest wearing protective styles til you get past midback, then starting to wear it down again, and see if it continues growing, or if it starts to break off again.
I agree, the point of long hair is really is to enjoy it! It just feels good wearing it down. I don't know if I'm there yet but I feel there's a certain point where healthy hair will just continue to grow and retain it's length, as long as we continue to care for it.Blu217 said:I've never paid attention to protective styles, tho I don't often do it and end up wearing it tucked or ponied just because it's quick and easy. I don't bother with buns, don't fuss over ends or all that. I try to keep it clean and neat and I wear it down when I want to. My hair grows quickly and easily, as does my mom's--and my mom couldn't care less about hair practices, but she's got a gorgeous head of hair. We both have very fine hair.
Now that my hair is quite long however, I find it getting smashed when I lean back in chairs or caught on purse straps. I've been enjoying showing off my length--the point of long hair is to enjoy it, not to hide it I say--but to avoid any issues I am going to start wearing it up more often. The thing is that now that it's long, it behaves and looks better than at any other length or time in my life--so I WANT to wear it down all the time!
Blu217 said:I've never paid attention to protective styles, tho I don't often do it and end up wearing it tucked or ponied just because it's quick and easy. I don't bother with buns, don't fuss over ends or all that. I try to keep it clean and neat and I wear it down when I want to. My hair grows quickly and easily, as does my mom's--and my mom couldn't care less about hair practices, but she's got a gorgeous head of hair. We both have very fine hair.
Now that my hair is quite long however, I find it getting smashed when I lean back in chairs or caught on purse straps. I've been enjoying showing off my length--the point of long hair is to enjoy it, not to hide it I say--but to avoid any issues I am going to start wearing it up more often. The thing is that now that it's long, it behaves and looks better than at any other length or time in my life--so I WANT to wear it down all the time!
pistachio said:I agree, I want to wear my length too, but really I just wear it down for special events/holiday get-togethers with out-of-town family. Think of it like this: if you bun everyday, and retain a lot of length, then when specials outings come up, then you'll have even MORE hair, and you'll enjoy wearing it down all the more, even if it's just fore a day or two.![]()
JazzyDez said:Wow I was under the impression that most of the ladies here practiced protective styling. I am surprised that the poll shows that most ladies don't and so many of the long haired women who replied in this thread don't really do protective styles and they continue to retain length. It makes me wonder if it is really that necessary.
I do agree that probably if protective styles were beneficial, the time-period between neck and apl would reap the most benefits, due to rubbing etc. I am protective styling in the sense that I wear 3/4 wigs, and probably will continue to do so until I reach APL, just to be on the safe side.
macherieamour said:I don't consciously protective style. I wear my hair down a few days and when it gets annoying I put it up in a loose bun or french roll and secure with a butterfly clip. I dont believe in strictly wearing it down or strictly wear it up. I think its all about balance-wear it down a few days to enjoy, wear it up a few days to preserve.
Isis said:I agree, the point of long hair is really is to enjoy it! It just feels good wearing it down. I don't know if I'm there yet but I feel there's a certain point where healthy hair will just continue to grow and retain it's length, as long as we continue to care for it.
GlamourGirl said:I agree Isis. Healthy hair will grow and retain length. I don't wear protective styles either because I find that the less I manipulate my hair, the more length I retain. When it just hangs everyday I don't have to do much to it.
I feel that maybe their hair would be a few inches longer had they did the protective styles especially for those who've had to trim their hair several inches along the way on the journey to long hair.