Your hair will be fine with emergencee. However, my policy has always been to wash and protein treatment a full week before a relaxer. I would fear for my scalp if I did it three days before.
why would you fear for you scalp??
I admit I don't use Emergencee but I am using Aphogee 2 step Treatment on Wednesday as well followed by NExxus Phyto Organics. I also plan on relaxing my hair on Saturday. I would recommend looking to the relaxed support sticky. There is an article by Sistaslick on what to do before a relaxer that also includes products to use. Hope you find this helpful.
Kiki,
You can use Emegencee before a perm. I usually do protein before a perm and after a perm. Kiki we need to catch up and see where we're at (with the challenge) I want to see what you've been doing and is it working. Speak to you soon.