splendid10
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Has anyone been relentless and determined that this is the man you will marry? If so, what did you do to achieve the goal of a life together?
Has anyone been relentless and determined that this is the man you will marry?
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envybeauty
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been there, done that. wouldn't wish it on anyone.
in my case, i had to realize that it was MY will to marry that man and not God's will. as such, i ignored so many signs because i had it in my mind that we would get married and that every couple has arguments, etc.
i now realize that if it takes that much work to keep the relationship on the path to marriage, it is not meant for me. relationships are not meant to be easy but it should not feel like an uphill battle either.
evaluate your own relationship to see if it is just flowing naturally towards marriage or if it is something you have to work too hard for.
in my case, i had to realize that it was MY will to marry that man and not God's will. as such, i ignored so many signs because i had it in my mind that we would get married and that every couple has arguments, etc.
i now realize that if it takes that much work to keep the relationship on the path to marriage, it is not meant for me. relationships are not meant to be easy but it should not feel like an uphill battle either.
evaluate your own relationship to see if it is just flowing naturally towards marriage or if it is something you have to work too hard for.
caribeandiva
Human being
wow that sucks. i've tried to make a relationship out of what wasn't meant to be. It's way to much work and it's usually one-sided anyway. Don't waste your time.
Let every happen naturally.
blackmaven
Anything Is Possible
It is okay for you to be determined to be marry. Does he discuss marriage? The few females I know try to force marriage still the girlfriend ten years later.
FlowerHair
Reclaiming my time
Do you really want to work that hard to be married? It shouldn't have to be forced, you know. Either he wants to or he doesn't. If anything, he should be relentless and determined as well
splendid10
Member
The conversations we've had in regards to marriage he initiated. I have taken a position not to bring it up..
envybeauty
New Member
Do you really want to work that hard to be married? It shouldn't have to be forced, you know. Either he wants to or he doesn't. If anything, he should be relentless and determined as well
I soooooooooooooooooo agree with this!
MzLady78
Well-Known Member
Yep.
I fought tooth and nail to make my last relationship work, when all the while he was showing me how HORRIFIC married life with him would be.
Then without any warning, he up and decided to end the relationship. I was totally dispensible to him while I "felt" like I couldn't be without him.
Never again.
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