Hair Effecting your mood?

[LadyZ]

I was just wondering if I am just too involved or what... BUT, if my hair is shedding/breaking, it is all I can think about at work or wherever I am and can not wait until I can get home a give myself some type of treatment to curb was is ailing it... I do not comb often, but if I comb before going to work and see too many hairs in it for whatever reason... I am thinking about what products I used to cause this and what product I can use once I get home to remedy this... I need to get a life, I know... Is this hair obsessed or what... I may need therapy for this one ...

Oh well, I hope I am not in this boat by myself... Help a lady out, someone, anyone

 

[klb120475]

No, you're not alone. I go through this quite often. I have found that rollersets have helped me out a lot. I use to hate rollersets, but now I luv them....I don't focus on my hair obsessions as much as I use to now.

 

[locabouthair]

im just like you. when my hair's not doing well, im in a bad mood and the next chance i get i log on here to do a search.

 

[LadyZ]

I hear you ladies... I tried and tried air drying with hair in a ponytail and it just did not work... I am now roller setting twice a week and my hair is much better... I still stress a little but not as much... I am working on it .

 

[klb120475]

I hear you ladies... I tried and tried air drying with hair in a ponytail and it just did not work... I am now roller setting twice a week and my hair is much better... I still stress a little but not as much... I am working on it .

Something about those rollersets that reduces the stress. I think it's because when I wear my hair straight, I'm constantly looking at the length of it. Then I feel a need to run a comb through to see if any strands fall out....

 

[locabouthair]

^ i had problems airdrying too even when i did a rollerset, my hair always came out dull and frizzy, but now that im using lacio lacio my hair comes out much better.

 

[LadyZ]

Lacio, is the bomb... I have it and a few others... Roller sets rock...

I try not to comb once I comb it out.... If I see a strand or few... My day is runt erplexed ...

 

[Jaegermany]

YES!

I cant function if my hair isnt right.

 

[guesswho]

Oh hell naw! I aint letting hair rule me like that I diverse my energy go play with my son look at my car or some ish I aint doing that it aint that serious, if the hairstyle aint looking good I'll bun that sucker and add a phony pony and I'm out, that's too much to let hair rule my mood there's things that change my mood hair isn't one of them not in the least! But to each there own! I aint judging this is my oppinion

 

[klb120475]

Oh hell naw! I aint letting hair rule me like that I diverse my energy go play with my son look at my car or some ish I aint doing that it aint that serious, if the hairstyle aint looking good I'll bun that sucker and add a phony pony and I'm out, that's too much to let hair rule my mood there's things that change my mood hair isn't one of them not in the least!

Go on then girl!!

 

[locabouthair]

Oh hell naw! I aint letting hair rule me like that I diverse my energy go play with my son look at my car or some ish I aint doing that it aint that serious, if the hairstyle aint looking good I'll bun that sucker and add a phony pony and I'm out, that's too much to let hair rule my mood there's things that change my mood hair isn't one of them not in the least! But to each there own! I aint judging this is my oppinion

i feel you, guess. i have those days where i just wanna put my hair in a pony or bun and keep it moving but i cant because my sides are too short.

 

[CoCoEspresso]

There are times when I am out and I see women with goregeous flowing hair and I feel like ... "Damn. I have to wear this freakin ponytail." It's all a means to end, though. It's just hair and I can't let it exert that much control over me.

 

[LadyZ]

I hear you ladies, It does get me mad at times, but I just bun it and moisturize it until I can do something about it... thanks for the input, at least I known I am not alone, and now I can handel it when it happens...

 

[Christa438]

When I first joined, I was depressed about my hair period. But I've learned to accept my hair for what it is and I know I've been doing everything I can since joining to improve my hair and make it healthier so I can retain my length as my hair grows long. Sometimes I do random inspections of my hair--I'll comb it and if the hairs are naturally shed with the tiny bulb on the end, I don't worry and I forget about my hair until I decide to do another inspection weeks later. I don't think you can do much to stop/control the natural shedding of your hair anyway.

 

[BillyJay]

Definetely!

There is a certain time in the month that I shed like crazy. I cant think if anything else. I count them over and over

I have issues, i know