GIving timeframe for marriage good or bad?

How is it selfish?

There's only so many years in a woman's life *Sigh

A guy should be able to tell you if he has plans to marry you after a year and half, IMO.
 
beebellkel said:
Is giving ur guy a timeframe to marry you a good idea. Is it considered selfish?
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Generally if you feel like you have to, then you should at least talk to him & make sure you're both on the same, page and that he wants to marry you in the first place. If he does, great! When does he see this happening? If he wants to wait longer than you want to, find out why. If his answer is ' uh I don't know' then a timeframe is a good idea LOL.If he has valid concerns, resolve them and then you can talk about marriage. Just my opinion.
 
Daeuiel said:
Generally if you feel like you have to, then you should at least talk to him & make sure you're both on the same, page and that he wants to marry you in the first place. If he does, great! When does he see this happening? If he wants to wait longer than you want to, find out why. If his answer is ' uh I don't know' then a timeframe is a good idea LOL.If he has valid concerns, resolve them and then you can talk about marriage. Just my opinion.
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I pretty much agree with this. Communication is important to making sure you two are on the same page.
 
Why would it be selfish? :perplexed It's okay (smart, really) to have goals and priorities and to assess whether your current relationship is compatible with them. If your current SO has different goals and priorities, both of you will benefit from finding out sooner rather than later.
 
Having a timeframe set for yourself? Good.

Actually giving a guy a deadline? I've never seen that work out well.
 
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