Hi ladies
Forgive my ignorant question, I hope at least 1 wiser/older member on here reads this and gives me some advice.
I am not completely naive and I understand that men are more 'physical' and women are more 'emotional'.
A man is more strongly guided by physical attraction, where as a woman can love a man who may not be attractive to most people with all her heart.
My question is are there men out there, who do not let physical attraction be the main factor in a partner?
I'm asking this because, when you live with a person every little thing that you can usually hide during dates (or dating) comes out. There is no hiding place. You wake up, he's there staring right in your face.
Or when you get pregnant, and you gain nearly 2 stone, and your BP rises and your face and legs swell up. And when you are not in mood for..
And when your children take up all your energy, and you look scruffy.
I'm not close to any of these things yet, haven't even finished school yet. But it makes me think about the kind of person that I need to avoid.
How do you find a man who is not so superficial. The first thing that will capture a man's eye is how you look. There is no hiding from it. That is why he comes to you and approaches you.
Is every guy superficial?
Is there any hope?
Forgive my ignorant question, I hope at least 1 wiser/older member on here reads this and gives me some advice.
I am not completely naive and I understand that men are more 'physical' and women are more 'emotional'.
A man is more strongly guided by physical attraction, where as a woman can love a man who may not be attractive to most people with all her heart.
My question is are there men out there, who do not let physical attraction be the main factor in a partner?
I'm asking this because, when you live with a person every little thing that you can usually hide during dates (or dating) comes out. There is no hiding place. You wake up, he's there staring right in your face.
Or when you get pregnant, and you gain nearly 2 stone, and your BP rises and your face and legs swell up. And when you are not in mood for..
And when your children take up all your energy, and you look scruffy.
I'm not close to any of these things yet, haven't even finished school yet. But it makes me think about the kind of person that I need to avoid.
How do you find a man who is not so superficial. The first thing that will capture a man's eye is how you look. There is no hiding from it. That is why he comes to you and approaches you.
Is every guy superficial?
Is there any hope?