Getting tested
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IrrationalThoughts
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If it is an SO, I would think it wouldnt be an issue and would probably already have come up. Just tell'em...I am blunt though.
Lylddlebit
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MizzBrown
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And make sure you see his paperwork too...Just cause he made the appointment and SAID he came back with a clean bill of health doesnt mean much unless you see it in writing.
Try to go get tested together at a clinic rather than waiting for each others private doctor to do it too.
Try to go get tested together at a clinic rather than waiting for each others private doctor to do it too.
juju
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Going together i thought was a good idea.
NaturallyBlonde
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ITA. I tend to bring it up really early... before any physical activity has taken place. If I meet you and I know in my uhhh brain I want it to happen, I ask. If they get offended, or don't want to talk about it, they gotta go. If you cant have a grown up conversation with me, you cant do grown up things with me.
Supervixen
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I think Kiya gave you the best way to bring it up. I also want to stress what others are saying, GO TOGETHER AND VIEW EACH OTHER'S RESULTS. Do not trust his word that everything was clear. Also, take no compromises on your health.
ThePerfectScore
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Make him watch Georgia Me's poem For your Protection
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ERQeVE4xoJA
Actually I had my conversation about getting testing and were were just laying in bed just talking and I asked.... simple as that... Have you been tested?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ERQeVE4xoJA
Actually I had my conversation about getting testing and were were just laying in bed just talking and I asked.... simple as that... Have you been tested?
Evolving78
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the first date. why wait?
kryolnapps
Active Member
That's what I did recently. We were making out for the first time after several dates and chaste kisses. We both knew things were not going to get far that day, but knew it would happen soon. So, after getting all hot and bothered, I told him: 'I like where this is going, but I would like it even more if we both get tested'. He said 'Cool, good idea, how about tomorrow?'
However, if you think you won't be able to stop or resist him, avoid the heavy make out session and talk about getting tested beforehand.
BrooklynSouth
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Lucky me, should I ever meet THE ONE I can grab a few QUICK tests from work and do it myself at anytime before the first saliva exchange kiss. Still, no friction will be had until a serious one on one commitment has been made-preferably marriage....I've had enough friction in my life so I can wait or do without.
EbonyYoungin517
Member
Sadly enough not enough people think of this BEFORE sexual relations. I'm very pleased to see that there are plenty of ladies with this mentality.
Bunny77
New Member
This assumes that you're gonna be sleeping with every dude you accept a date with!
I wish I would suggest an STD test to a dude who simply wanted to take me to Starbucks for a cup of coffee and conversation! Come on now!
Seriously though, I think that once two people recognize that they are going to enter a sexual relationship, then it should be discussed and folks should go get tested. This takes discipline though... don't put yourself in a position where you KNOW you're gonna get sexual and then make a feeble attempt to have "the talk" while he's taking your clothes off... do it before it gets to that point!
