Well, I am getting a relaxer in approx. 2 weeks..I am so afrad that my hair is going to fall out! I am going back to no lye because I dont think my scalp can handle lye, but i heard using no lye after having a lye will cause breakage. I'm wondering how concerned I should be...last time a chemical touched my hair it was Revlon Realistic lye, but it didnt take...so should I still be worried about breakage???