Hi ladies. I'm new, but I'm jumping in. My hair is at the base of my neck. Just lost 2" to a trim at the salon. Ugh! I needed those 2". I'll be doing my own hair for awhile and possibly pressing it (myself) maybe once a month. I plan on dc'ing every week. I have to blow dry and I'll wear twist out styles. Maybe I'll stretch and blow dry every 10 instead of 7 days.
I feel like some of you ladies. After all these years, wearing wigs, trying this and that, I'm still at the base of my neck. I'm wondering if I just don't have the skills or if my hair just won't grow beyond a certain point.
hi Yodie!
i have had the same problem with hair that could not get past my ears.
that's why i stopped using heat (nov.2009).
(please try leaving the blow dryer and iron alone, your hair growth will thank you!
just try it for a couple of months and see what happens...)
i also started dc'ing more often....2-3 times a week.
it's really easy: you can try putting dc on at night while your hair is dry, then wrap it in saran wrap, put a cholesterol cap on and go to sleep. i've read reports where ladies say it's like getting a steam and/or hot dryer treatment because of the body heat while we sleep. all i know is that it GREATLY benifited my hair.
you wrote that you've worn wigs, so i think that means you do have that option. many ladies on here have worn wigs while taking care of their hair to grow it out.
you can try cowashing your hair on a daily basis, moisturizing and sealing, then putting a plastic cap on (bagging), then your wig cap and wig.
if you try this for even just a month, i am sure that you will see progress in your growth and you won't have to think about all those heat appliances or need them.
hth...
on a personal note, i am really considering getting some more excercise in because of the posts i have read. i am terribly lazy and totally unmotivated to excercise, but i think wanting my hair to gain an inch or more in a month, is just the motivation i needed!