I usually use Jam to hold my ponytails (love the shiny look) but, it's so greasy. I recently tried Fantasia IC thick hold and it makes my hair look dry and wavy. I have 4b relaxed hair and am looking for a gel that'll hold my ponys w/o giving it that dry look. I would like something shiny or natural looking (once it dries). I'm open to any suggestions...pretty please.