Fully Despondent about my hair!!! :(

[Mimi22]

Hi all

I'm so annoyed with my hair at this point in my journey. It seems like my hair is just ugly; heat damage, short stringy thin hair in the front, untameable at times, dry & brittleness and if I dont wear a weave/braids, i dont see any growth progress.
I feel like I have an okay regimen, but even that sometimes feels like a pathetic assembly of hair care products. Every new challenge or product I question and feel, will it make a difference in my already screwed up hair? I know this isnt a good way to kick off the new year, and I see alot of ppl with promise or optimism for the new year, but all I see for me if more stress to get it right. Yesterday, a friend of mine looked at my hair and said "Oh girl, what happened to your hair??, It used to be so pretty, now its like ughhh"....Oh i cried inside, it hurt so much.

I'm so tempted to join the AAA challenge, but wary that my hair will just curl up and laugh.

I'm sorry ladies, I just needed to vent my frustration and anxiety. Talk to me please??

 

[Te'TahHead]

Hi all

I'm so annoyed with my hair at this point in my journey. It seems like my hair is just ugly; heat damage, short stringy thin hair in the front, untameable at times, dry & brittleness and if I dont wear a weave/braids, i dont see any growth progress.
I feel like I have an okay regimen, but even that sometimes feels like a pathetic assembly of hair care products. Every new challenge or product I question and feel, will it make a difference in my already screwed up hair? I know this isnt a good way to kick off the new year, and I see alot of ppl with promise or optimism for the new year, but all I see for me if more stress to get it right. Yesterday, a friend of mine looked at my hair and said "Oh girl, what happened to your hair??, It used to be so pretty, now its like ughhh"....Oh i cried inside, it hurt so much.

I'm so tempted to join the AAA challenge, but wary that my hair will just curl up and laugh.

I'm sorry ladies, I just needed to vent my frustration and anxiety. Talk to me please??

Hi There!!!

Do you mind posting your reggie?

 

[Mimi22]

sure.

Its as follows:

Pre-poo with Amla oil & Burt's bees avocado cream
Poo with KeraCare dry & itchy scalp
DC with Cholesterol w/ ORS replenishin pak
Con/detangle with KeraCare Humecto
Leave-in: jennifer myer's hair oil/chi silk infusion/Garnier sleek & shine. [AIRDRY/BLOWDRY]
Moisturise with KeraCare oil moisturizer/redken clear moisture/ORS olive oil lotion
Oil scalp with BT+MN+ Vatika oil mix

Flat Iron once every 4 weeks using chi silk infusion

And thats it....

plait