French Men?

I work with a French guy and he pisses me the f&*(k off.

He's always saying how he's "not racist" unnecessarily.

Like someone can ask him "Do you want the brown bagel or the white one?" and he'll say "What do you think I'm racist?"

Or make very loaded racial comments and then say how he's not racist

and other dumb sh!t like that

He gets me soooo mad

But I'm sure not all French men are like that so...
 
Black, born in France, of Sengalese descent, lived in London:
- Way more like a West African in behavior than a French man so not a good example of a French man

White, born in France, lived in NY
- didn't like to date; wanted to head straight to relationship. Thought my insistence on dating was my trying to be anglo saxon and not a true person of African. I shld have dumped him then, but I was young and enticed by the french
- liked to list his ex-girlfriends by country of origin. Second sign.
- had no filter, which he considered being not as fake as anglo saxons
- liked to point out anglo saxon behavior and traits he thought I had and condemn them
- was very attached, possesive, and emotional, which was a bit much for an aquarian.
 
Agreed. A Frenchie wanted to date me and he was incredibly obnoxious and arrogant. There was very little re-deeming him. From what I can tell it's a cultural thing and how they act in general. It's a bit of a culture shock to Americans. Well, THIS American.
 
Not in a dating sense just in general:

I work with a French guy. Married. Kids. Lovely man. And he let me try some of his homemade macaroons! Also makes delicious brioche and almond tarts.

Very liberal and loves soccer. Maybe I lucked out. haha.
 
'Em crazy mofos! But Black French men do look quite tasty. No personal experiences with them though
 
Normal.
Not as obsessed with skin colour as other nationalities...
But then I live in Paris so it might be easier for me to see them as individuals.
 
Not much experience though I can't stand the accent and normally I love accents.:perplexed If I ever dated a Frenchman he likely wouldn't be white.:nono::look:
 
DarkJoy said:
Agreed. A Frenchie wanted to date me and he was incredibly obnoxious and arrogant. There was very little re-deeming him. From what I can tell it's a cultural thing and how they act in general. It's a bit of a culture shock to Americans. Well, THIS American.
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Exact words I use to describe my French ex. I thought it might have been just him but apparently not. :lol:
 
Dated a French guy of Algerian descent off and on for a couple of months. He was the stereotypical Franc, love of good food, cheese, wines and dessert. For work, he was a baker, he had his own company delivering breads and desserts to hotels and restaurants. But just as stereotypically, he complained and whined about any and everything. There is a saying, French people are happiest when they are complaining. That drove me nuts to no end. And in all honesty, i would have preferred a tad more creative coloring outside the box. But. That was just one frenchman, and my humble experience.
But all in all, he was a gentleman. Typical euro. (I like euro men, I think they in general treat women well), smart, multi-lingual (which I was always impressed with, fluent in english, french, german and spanish, that alot i think). Able to stop dating amicably. Go for it, variety is the spice of life. :)
 
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Just goes to show how different experiences can be.

He was HOTT. So sweet and affectionate. Not at all arrogant.

I knew it was going nowhere (I lived in DC and he lived in Paris) but he was really instrumental in opening my eyes to what I was looking for in a man. About a year later I met DH.
 
ScorpioBeauty09 said:
Not much experience though I can't stand the accent and normally I love accents.:perplexed If I ever dated a Frenchman he likely wouldn't be white.:nono::look:
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Yes. The one trying to see me was a white Frenchie. I am sure there's differences just like white American vs black American. IM open to black ones...
 
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