I don't know how to link a thread but there are a few threads on this same issue.
I have fine hair and I learned that I couldn't moisturize everyday if I was wearing my hair down. When you add products a little bit goes a long way.
If I'm wearing my hair in a straight style when I moisturize I use a light spray like John Frieda leave in and seal with a light oil like coconut or a serum.
If I'm wearing my hair in a braid, bun, or any other style that hides the ends, I'll use any water based creamy moisturizer and seal w/oil.
HTH