Sui Topi
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(Kind of a vent)
A little background..I just had a baby boy in March 07 and sometimes DH (I know who it stands for but would someone please tell me what it stands for lol I cant for the life of me figure it out. Daddy Husband or something?..what if you dont have kids?..anyway) and I get into these talks about having another boy (hopefully) and its like. I'm all for it...my only term in regards to children is I dont want them more than 3 years apart (3 years is pushing it) but ..the thing is this summer/fall I finally got my body back and I don't really want to lose it yet. I feel so selfish to say that because aside from that everything falls into place. I'm a stay at home mom right now so I'll be here taking care of a baby anyway so whats one more
and I think it'll be so much easier to do things with them because theyre within the same age group. My son was born 3 days away from my husbands birthday and he says that for our next one we'll try to have it near mine which means this february I may officially be TTC
erplexed. Anyway..I just feel really bad to put our family plans on hold like this for my own vain reasons. I mean hopefully since I'm still young and have that fast acting metabolism 
I may be able to get back to this afterwards..the only thing I'm not so sure about is my breasts. I even got approached to do modeling and that was one of my dreams before I got pregnant, and If I decide to have another baby, I have to wait another year and a half before I think about that and we all know how time is money in that area of work. On a side note, I talked to my husband about how I'm feeling and he says we can wait until february 2009 but then theyll be kinda further apart in age than I'd hope.. I dont think if I was to get pregnant that I'd be depressed but I wont know until im there right? Anyway thanks for reading..please post any comments or ideas that can help me out in this situation
A little background..I just had a baby boy in March 07 and sometimes DH (I know who it stands for but would someone please tell me what it stands for lol I cant for the life of me figure it out. Daddy Husband or something?..what if you dont have kids?..anyway) and I get into these talks about having another boy (hopefully) and its like. I'm all for it...my only term in regards to children is I dont want them more than 3 years apart (3 years is pushing it) but ..the thing is this summer/fall I finally got my body back and I don't really want to lose it yet. I feel so selfish to say that because aside from that everything falls into place. I'm a stay at home mom right now so I'll be here taking care of a baby anyway so whats one more
and I think it'll be so much easier to do things with them because theyre within the same age group. My son was born 3 days away from my husbands birthday and he says that for our next one we'll try to have it near mine which means this february I may officially be TTCerplexed. Anyway..I just feel really bad to put our family plans on hold like this for my own vain reasons. I mean hopefully since I'm still young and have that fast acting metabolism I may be able to get back to this afterwards..the only thing I'm not so sure about is my breasts. I even got approached to do modeling and that was one of my dreams before I got pregnant, and If I decide to have another baby, I have to wait another year and a half before I think about that and we all know how time is money in that area of work. On a side note, I talked to my husband about how I'm feeling and he says we can wait until february 2009 but then theyll be kinda further apart in age than I'd hope.. I dont think if I was to get pregnant that I'd be depressed but I wont know until im there right? Anyway thanks for reading..please post any comments or ideas that can help me out in this situation