Almaz
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I have a friend she is a sweet person. But when she is with a man I don't hear from her for about 6 to 8 months then when she breaks up with this guy of the moment she is calling me like I just spoke with her yesterday. When my friends are in relationships I totally understand and I respect boundries. But she gets totally Dic*matised when she is with a new guy and she disappears.
I laugh about it. But then I found out she was doing this to EVERYONE in our environment. We told her to remember you GF's have been here so don't forget about us and don't take us for granted and don't expect us to always be around to help you pick up the pieces after you latest breakup.
She is not a fly by night aquaintance. We were born in the same City we immigrated to Israel together we were in the Army together. I have known her all my life.
But sometimes I worry but she is grown. But it is nerve wracking cause I told her the other day NO more crying to me when you break up no more.
She had the nerve to get mad at me. I was like UHHHHH.
Did/Does or Do anyone on here have someone like that in their lives and how do you deal with that. If she were anyone else I would have cut her loose like that. But we go back since birth basically and we grew up like sisters. But she is flaking now.
Should I cut her loose?
What would you do?
Thankserplexed
I laugh about it. But then I found out she was doing this to EVERYONE in our environment. We told her to remember you GF's have been here so don't forget about us and don't take us for granted and don't expect us to always be around to help you pick up the pieces after you latest breakup.
She is not a fly by night aquaintance. We were born in the same City we immigrated to Israel together we were in the Army together. I have known her all my life.
But sometimes I worry but she is grown. But it is nerve wracking cause I told her the other day NO more crying to me when you break up no more.
She had the nerve to get mad at me. I was like UHHHHH.
Did/Does or Do anyone on here have someone like that in their lives and how do you deal with that. If she were anyone else I would have cut her loose like that. But we go back since birth basically and we grew up like sisters. But she is flaking now.
Should I cut her loose?
What would you do?
Thankserplexed