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Smiley79 have you tried braidouts? I can't get a cute style with twistouts either so I gave up trying years ago.
Smiley79 What about using a product with a little bit of hold?
@Smiley79 What are you using for your twist outs? I have to use a product with hold to get good definition. ORS Twist and Loc gel works well, as does Jamican Mango & Lime Loc and Twist gel. Both of those products give a nice, soft hold and give me a defined, sheeny twist-out. I can make a nice set of twists with just butters or gels, but twist-outs are a no go without something with good hold.
My shingle n go... using smooth n shine polishing curl activator gel, I love this gel so much more than ecostyler gel!
Do you use glycerin?The Ugly
So this is my struggle as a natural. My hair always looks a hot mess despite me twisting, flat twisting, using product, letting it completely dry, I've tried stretching it beforehand, I've tried wet hair, dry hair....UGHHH! Trust me, it's been over 2 years now and I have tried EVERYTHING under the sun and what you see in the picture is what my natural hair ALWAYS looks like after a twist out. No definition, frizzy hair that's just blah. You have no idea how frustrated it gets me... so that's why I always rock puffs because my hair never looks right. smh. To me this does not look cute or presentable. I don't know what else to do with my hair. my last straw is to try the Cherry Lola Caramel/Max Hydration Method and see what happens, if that doesn't help than I give up...I'm just gonna keep my hair braided up underneath wigs for 2015.
your hair looks great
i actually picked this up at cvs and the aloe vera in it is everythang--i too like this wayyyyyyy better than ecostyler...the smell is also great...
smooth and shine is it for me...its very moisturising yet has the hold..my curls have been looking great i have my hair in this up do thingy and everyone has complimented on the style..but this gel made the look...it shiny but not to shiny...love it!!!
The Ugly
So this is my struggle as a natural. My hair always looks a hot mess despite me twisting, flat twisting, using product, letting it completely dry, I've tried stretching it beforehand, I've tried wet hair, dry hair....UGHHH! Trust me, it's been over 2 years now and I have tried EVERYTHING under the sun and what you see in the picture is what my natural hair ALWAYS looks like after a twist out. No definition, frizzy hair that's just blah. You have no idea how frustrated it gets me... so that's why I always rock puffs because my hair never looks right. smh. To me this does not look cute or presentable. I don't know what else to do with my hair. my last straw is to try the Cherry Lola Caramel/Max Hydration Method and see what happens, if that doesn't help than I give up...I'm just gonna keep my hair braided up underneath wigs for 2015.
Do you use glycerin?
I experienced something very similar to you and I was getting sooo frustrated so I can relate!
I stopped using glycerin and my hair gradually became able to hold a curl!
Try eliminating glycerin if you use it and see how you go...
Aww you and your hair are cute!!
However this is all fine hair problems tbh. What I found helps when I really want twist out definition is to use a setting lotion like lottabody or mizani on soaking wet hair. They smooth down the cuticle and really hold the curl shape as well as resist reversion.
Hth
BostonMaria: Wow! Both you and your daughter have gorgeous hair! How long is your daughter's hair?
Just straightened DD's hair
Thud....hit face on floor when I fell down after passing out looking at her hair and yours.... Help me! That's some beautiful hair!!!!