Ever been lied on?
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Not really, but I did blatantly lie about something at work.
In February of 2011 my company did a multi-city tourism tour with an elected official.
This little jerk from the elected official's office yell at me and smacked a clipboard out of my hand to the floor. When I complained to my CEO he told me to suck it up and not complain to the official.
I was very hurt about that. But the next day this same jerk yelled at my CEO and nearly pushed him as he went out the door. My CEO told the official and the chief of staff to ask me about this staffer's behavior. They asked to see me privately. .
So when it was me it was okay but now that it was him he wanted something done?
I lied. I said he never yelled at me and he was fine to work with. I also said I didn't see what he did to our CEO.
When we got back my CEO asked me why I did it and I told him. If you don't have my back, I don't have yours.
I am so glad I don't work there anymore!!!
In February of 2011 my company did a multi-city tourism tour with an elected official.
This little jerk from the elected official's office yell at me and smacked a clipboard out of my hand to the floor. When I complained to my CEO he told me to suck it up and not complain to the official.
I was very hurt about that. But the next day this same jerk yelled at my CEO and nearly pushed him as he went out the door. My CEO told the official and the chief of staff to ask me about this staffer's behavior. They asked to see me privately. .
So when it was me it was okay but now that it was him he wanted something done?
I lied. I said he never yelled at me and he was fine to work with. I also said I didn't see what he did to our CEO.
When we got back my CEO asked me why I did it and I told him. If you don't have my back, I don't have yours.
I am so glad I don't work there anymore!!!
SmileyNY
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Yes. I just caught someone in a bold faced lie the other day. I called them out on it and they blatantly denied it and looked nervous. I felt sorry for them because it was just so pathetic that they were holding on to the lie. I could have provided evidence to prove that I knew for a fact they were lying, but I just dropped.
Yes, I have been lied on and I have witnessed other people lie on people that I love. I did try to call the person out on a couple occassions and I even had proof that they were lying, but the person would never admit to any wrong doing. My thing is this...if you tell me a lie and I give you mutiple opportunities to come clean and you then try to make it my fault...like I made you tell the lie....then there isn't much that we can talk about. I keep my distance. A person who will lie on you and to you is dangerous and has very few boundaries that they won't cross.
auparavant
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OH, yess ma'am and there wasn't anything I could do about it. It had spread to an ENTIRE community of hundreds and they believed those lies for years and all subsequent lies recently told by the liar prior to that person's demise. Some probably still believe those darned lies. What can you do? Confront them? Just live your life. They can believe what they want. But I'll tell you this...of those "close" family who obviously believed those lies and shut me out for awhile, they surely came running in support when they found out it wasn't true. I'm glad I don't live up under them and am far, far away.
ultrasuede
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I was lied on by a woman that was a member of my grandmother's church. I went to the church for a special program that they were having. Originally I was seated in the back, until an usher moved me to a seat next to this woman near the front. The program was nice and I went home. The next day she called my house and told my mother that I had gone into her purse and stolen her money while seated next to her in the church. I was devastated and I told her this was not true but she was insistent that I did steal her money. My mother called the pastor, and a few days later she told my grandmother that the Holy Spirit revealed to her that I did not take the money. Later on I found out that she told another church member that her son had stolen the money before she left for church to buy Marijuana. She never apologized to me or acknowledged that she had been wrong.
JeterCrazed
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If I had all the kids and baby fathers I've been rumoured to have, Octomom would need to have a seat. With single births at 27, I would have probably 15 children. I'm unwed. Sorry, no kids. I just laugh.
My aunt told my mother I had stolen $400. She spent it on nose candy and was supposed to be selling it. She had to cause a scene so she wouldn't get dealt with for stealing. She has never apologized. I was 12.
I came in this thread not expecting to hear church stories. I would be much too (insert word I'm reaching for here) to lie in a place of worship. People are unscrupulous.
My aunt told my mother I had stolen $400. She spent it on nose candy and was supposed to be selling it. She had to cause a scene so she wouldn't get dealt with for stealing. She has never apologized. I was 12.
I came in this thread not expecting to hear church stories. I would be much too (insert word I'm reaching for here) to lie in a place of worship.
People are unscrupulous.
Iwanthealthyhair67
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who hasn't ...
and it hurts, the best remedy is forgive and move on...
and it hurts, the best remedy is forgive and move on...
Livingmylifetothefullest
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Yep and I would just stay away from the said person.
Now the most recent, if she doesn't stop, I will go the legal route. Defamation isn't cute or funny.
Now the most recent, if she doesn't stop, I will go the legal route. Defamation isn't cute or funny.
Yep, this guy I went to college with lied and told several people that I was bisexual and he knew it becauea he saw me kiss one of my friends (my BFF at the time) on the lips while out at a club.
THIS NEVER HAPPENED! I've never kissed any woman and I am NOT bisexual at all.
I confronted him and asked him why was he telling this lie, but he still acted as though he really saw this happen. I get angry every time I think about it, because to this day this dude is STILL telling people that he saw this happen and it is absolutely not true.
Now I'm mad all over again!
THIS NEVER HAPPENED! I've never kissed any woman and I am NOT bisexual at all.
I confronted him and asked him why was he telling this lie, but he still acted as though he really saw this happen. I get angry every time I think about it, because to this day this dude is STILL telling people that he saw this happen and it is absolutely not true.
Now I'm mad all over again!
mscocoface
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Have you heard that gospel song where they sing..I have been lied on, cheated, talked about mistreated.
Yeah, poster chile for that, but I know who is in charge and knows the truth. I keep it moving and always know that If He is for me then who can be against me.
Yeah, poster chile for that, but I know who is in charge and knows the truth. I keep it moving and always know that If He is for me then who can be against me.
allmundjoi
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My sister lied and told my mom I burned our tent down. Lying hussy. I just provided the matches. She burned it down. I am still mad about that...and we were 8. Lol. That was the first time I remember she 'betrayed' me. We were very close.
auparavant
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Several days after high school graduation, I remember this crazy looking guy I passed by in the street outside the blood bank and he stopped me and charged, "you had a baby, didn't you?" I was shocked, laughed a bit and told him no and he replied, "yes, you did, you're lying, you had a baby." "ok" And kept on walking. Um, I believe the Virgin Mary held the world sole virgin birth
When I was 15 and my brother was 4 he told my mother that I was having sex with white boys in her bed. I was a virgin. I have no idea where he got this information from...something he heard or saw on tv...I don't know. Needless to say, my mother appoached me about this and even though I told her it never happened the conversation turned ugly anyway. He was only four at the time, so I know he didn't do it to be malicious. My issue was with my mother. The discussion turned ugly and got physical all over something that my four year old brother said.
When I was about 14 my dad's wallet went missing. He got up to go to work and couldn't find it. He came in my room while I was getting ready for school and asked me if I had seen it and I told him no. A few minutes later my mom came in my room and asked if I had seen it. I told her no and she started looking through my things just to be sure. That afternoon when I got home from school I learned that my dad did find his wallet. I don't know where he found it. For some odd reason I kept expecting my mom or dad to apologize to me for thinking that I had stolen it, but no one ever said a word.
When I was about 14 my dad's wallet went missing. He got up to go to work and couldn't find it. He came in my room while I was getting ready for school and asked me if I had seen it and I told him no. A few minutes later my mom came in my room and asked if I had seen it. I told her no and she started looking through my things just to be sure. That afternoon when I got home from school I learned that my dad did find his wallet. I don't know where he found it. For some odd reason I kept expecting my mom or dad to apologize to me for thinking that I had stolen it, but no one ever said a word.
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