Evaluation of Towanda Braxton and Andre's Lunch Date

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3:15 to 5:40

Taste of a Wedding Singer Part I.

Sorry for the poor quality, I tried to find the original but could not. This isn't all that bad but what do you think about his communication with his wife? And what about her reaction to him? He's so aloof and to say to his wife he didn't like his mother but he loved her...then to compare her to that? Slightly veiled insults and smacking on the food? And she's asking him if he's got somebody else? This man has her pay for the lunch? I know they soon separated but this man is so character flawed, I want to punch him. If you continue to watch, she's asking him to step up and be her partner because she's missing out on spending time with the kids and he cops an attitude and then goes to play video games? Towanda and Andre...now that's a relationship I do not want to have.

Do you think they grew into this somehow? Do you think he was always playing a game, looking for this type? He married a big name and wanted to rest on her laurels? :nono: That is a whole lot of arrogant BM. She's playing superwoman for real and waited a long time to kick him to the curb.


EDIT: We know the quality is bad...just comment on the topic please? We don't need snark about somebody who taped their t.v., kkkk?
 
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I'm trying to concentrate on the video but LilTat19 look like she can whoop some serious arse :perplexed :lachen:
 
I saw this and just shook my head. I could not see what she could have ever seen in such a weak man. Maybe opposites attract? IDK?
 
I gave the side eye to him writing books and not bringing any income to the table. Maybe their marriage did not start out that way.
And how has she been supporting him and the kids all this time??
 
I can't be with a man I don't respect. He must be great with the kids otherwise I don't see how she tolerated him but that's the problem people will do what you let them get away with. Why should he change now.
 
What killed me most was his arrogant attitude towards her. He totally thought he was within his rights to disrespect her. Simple man.
 
I just remember when she was on "Starting Over" years ago and he went to L.A. to visit her, this is when they were first married. He was so in love with her. She had a lot of insecurities in her marriage even then :nono:.

However, since he's a writer and he never published his books is a mess in itself. Seems to me that he was never a provider from the start and why would any woman marry someone that can't provide is beyond me!
 
Good thread. Andre and Towanda are a mystery--a scary one. They have only been married like 7 years, so it doesn't seem like there have been any dramatic changes over time in their lives. I found it so ironic that he complained that she reminded him of his mother when clearly he depends wholly on his wife to take care of him like she would another one of her children.
 
it is very sad to seeee...

she is clearly communicating what she needs wants and what the family needs...

and he is being dismissive and aloof...

but once he mentioned her reminding him of his mom...it all was revealed..


again 1st female relationship...a man has had is with his mom....and apparently it left a negative impact on dude...

i wish her all the best and she deserves better!
 
Love Always said:
I just remember when she was on "Starting Over" years ago and he went to L.A. to visit her, this is when they were first married. He was so in love with her. She had a lot of insecurities in her marriage even then :nono:.

However, since he's a writer and he never published his books is a mess in itself. Seems to me that he was never a provider from the start and why would any woman marry someone that can't provide is beyond me![/QUOTE]


Girl she was trying to work with the "potential" of her future Kang (lol)
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^^^Ya'll love throwing out a Kang reference every chance you get :lol:. He certainly lives up to that name that's for sure.
 
My friend & I always joke that a man will always find somebody no matter what shape or state he's in. Even with all of Andre's issues, Towanda said that he had started seeing someone. Somebody is willing to date that broke man with little ambition and multiple kids who is still married.
 
I can't fault her for her communication style. I see where it stems from. He's not handling business, not being the provider, not doing his job, not playing his role. Every woman has a limit. Now they're at the point where they're moving into her sister's house? :perplexed She said he helps with homework and watches the kids, but :look: is that above and beyond his role as a father anyway?
 
I can't believe that a person recorded this from a TV and posted it. It looks like it was recorded on a cellphone. Well wonder's never cease.
 
He's a loser. It killed me when she defended him so heatedly to Tamar in the episode where they were in the lawyers office getting seperation papers. I can't believe she was defending this dummy. Tamar got a big mouth, but she had a point. You have your entire family moved in with one sister and the other sister bought you a car that your husband drives? And you still defending this fool? That's DEAD.
 
Dacia38 said:
He's a loser. It killed me when she defended him so heatedly to Tamar in the episode where they were in the lawyers office getting seperation papers. I can't believe she was defending this dummy. Tamar got a big mouth, but she had a point. You have your entire family moved in with one sister and the other sister bought you a car that your husband drives? And you still defending this fool? That's DEAD.
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I disagree about this one. She was making a distinction about him as a father versus him as a husband. While I can't stand the idea of him as Anyones partner he does seem to have a genuine nurturing bond with his kids and I wouldn't take that away from him either. Probably the last positive thing I would say about him.
 
princessnad said:
I didn't care for her communication style either
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I didn't, either. But I don't know this couple or their background. She came off really defensive, "what does that mean?" and then of course the "I need a provider" thing. And she may very well need one, but people get defensive when you start openly criticizing them and their lack of achievement. That said, her criticism is understandable. How long has he not been financially contributing to the household? They have to move in with her sister? I would be mad about that, too. They are not in a position to have the luxury of him working on his writing, writing that he never sells. I'm sure they must have some kind of connections so he can get some kind of job!
 
It looks to me like he probably hasn't changed from who he always was. Perhaps she just saw what she wanted when she went into it.

If you are going to be with a creative ie "writer, singer, producer, artist" etc someone going into a relationship with that person has to know that they rarely earn a decent, regular income. So you either know that these creative things are an outlet and he has some other means of income or you know you will be the one handling the bills.
 
DrC said:
I gave the side eye to him writing books and not bringing any income to the table. Maybe their marriage did not start out that way.
And how has she been supporting him and the kids all this time??
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She is Toni's Assistant. You would have to watch the whole season,it gets mentioned.
 
And to those asking yeah she recorded it on her phone actually. She says it in her comments or one of her videos of other episodes. I am glad she did though cause I watched this last month to catch up on episodes I had missed.
 
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